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Monday, October 14 9:00 am Michael Henry Tuesday, October 15 7:00 am Bart Casey 9:00 am Robert Kozlowski Wednesday, October 16 7:00 am Mauruso Chiovaro 9:00 am George Mitch Thursday, October 17 7:00 am Lucy Hrotko 9:00 am John Pichl 3:30pm Sacrament of Reconciliation Friday, October 18 7:00 am Kelly Kunzman 9:00 am Frank DeLillo Saturday, October 19 9:00 am Theresa Restivo 4:00 pm Dec’d of Mahon-Walsh Fam.- HF 5:30 pm People of the Parish 6:30 pm Sacrament of Reconciliation Sunday, October 20 8:00 am Rosa Gangitino 9:00 am Dec’d of Parisi Family- HF 10:00 am Dec’d of Herrighty Family 11:00 am Evelyn Blum- HF 12:00 pm Francesca Camisi 1:30 pm Elzbieta Bogusz 5:00 pm Josette Colimon

WE KEEP IN OUR PRAYERS Those serving in the Armed Forces: : Jonathan Viegas, Brian Roemer, David Concepcion, Patrick Brasel, Sean Brasel, Chris Ehlers, Donald Dikijian, Kristopher Rodgers, Caes Waldron, Aaron Waldron, Nicholas Cipriano, Andrew Paul, Nicholas Paul, Sam Saracino, Joseph Mantz, Christian Thompson, Jeffrey Hurley, Peter Miceli, Shaun Lieb, Patricia McDonald, Hunter Mantz, Michael Accardi. Those who are sick and shut-in: Fr. Bernardino Esguerra, Justin Carlomusto, Andrew Baltazar, JFC, Dennis, Mary Flynn, Albert Geraci, Elizabeth Klix, Christina Baynes, Leslie Fagan, Robert Scotti, Christine Clements, Helen Meyer, Jennifer Noon, Patricia Kiley, Pauline Wittman, Frances Szala, Elizabeth Inderrieden, Brian Mayer, Roseann Lukasik, John & Corinne Kerod, Jeanne Patrick, Jean Marie Mikhail, Marie Wengerter, Barbara Umstadter, Evelyn Stoveken, Dorothy McGrath, David Cutts, Kristen Drago, Diane Raimondi, Ted & Judy Dalley, Neil McPeak, Anthony & Phyllis Mastropierro, Rose Della Santi, Maria Ingrassia, Florence Cannon, Concetta Lemmo, Carmela Frangione, Jean Byrne, Julie Leo, Gloria Stamato, Deacon Tony Martucci, John Earles, Jr, Mervyn & Jonathan Fonseca, Tilda D’Elia, Gailann Tromello, Luz Zalduondo, Nellie Tomaszcewski, Steve & Mei Lee Wong, Kathleen Matta, Mary Claire McGregor, Rachel Manning, Joanne Kornowski, Joyce Gavan, Natalie Lucas, Connie Novozinsky, Esulina Casale, Eva Uyar.

MEMORIALS THIS WEEK Sanctuary Light SML Dec’d of D’Agostin Family Donna Dunbar Schwartz Vigil Light Blessed Mother Dec’d of Ely-Banas Family Vigil Light Sacred Heart Int. of R. Ruppert Wittman Vigil Light St. Joseph Sylvester Cascio

Those recently deceased: Emilia Chavez, Joseph Carruba.

UPCOMING WEDDINGS Oct. 26 – Matthew Heines & Justine Prendimano Nov. 2 – Jonathan Kelleher & Kaitlyn Monahan Johnny Muniz & Mary Beth Garbarino Nov. 9 – Brian Simanek & Gillian Lyons

Bread offered at all Masses In Memory of Joseph Adamski Also available: Sanctuary Light at HF; Blessed Mother, Sacred Heart; St. Joseph and Wine. 3

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READINGS FOR THE WEEK • Monday: St. Callistus I – Rom 1:1-7; Luke 11:29-32 • Tuesday: St. Teresa – Rom 1:16-25; Luke 11:37-41 • Wednesday: St. Hedwig, St. Margaret Mary Alacoque – Rom 2:1-11; Luke 11:42-46 • Thursday: St. Ignatius of Antioch – Rom 3:21-30; Luke 11:47-52 • Friday: St. Luke - 2 Tim 4:10-17b; Luke 10:1-9 • Saturday: Sts. John de Brebeuf & Isaac Jogues - Rom 4:13, 16-18; Luke 12:8-12 • Sunday: Ex 17:8-13; 2 Tim 3:14-4:2; Luke 18:1-8

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Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over, will be poured into your lap. For with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. -Luke 6:37-38

SCHEDULE OF EVENTS Sun, Oct. 13: Divine Mercy Healing Mass at 2p in Holy Family Chapel Sun, Oct. 13: Ultreya, Holy Family Cry Room, 12 noon Mon, Oct. 14: No Adoration in Holy Family Chapel Mon, Oct. 14: AA, Guild Hall, 7-9:30p Tues, Oct. 15: Choir Practice, HF Chapel, 7p Wed, Oct. 16: Bereavement Group, 10:30a Wed, Oct. 16: Legion of Mary at 4p, Guild Hall Wed, Oct. 16: K of C meets 7:30pm, White Church Mon, Oct. 28: Baptismal Preparation Class for parent, Community Center, 7p Thurs, Nov. 7: CDA meets at 7p in Comm. Ctr. Thurs, Nov. 14: Rosary Altar Society meets at 7p in Community Ctr. Tues, Dec. 10: St. Vincent de Paul Society, HFS Cafeteria, 6:30p

EUCHARISTIC ADORATION Monday: 6:30–7:30 PM at Holy Family Chapel Thursday: 1–5 PM at St. Mary of the Lake “Come to Me, all you who are heavily burdened and I will give you rest.”

DIVINE MERCY HEALING MASS Holy Family Chapel October 13 - 2 PM

SECOND COLLECTION There will be a second collection at all Masses next weekend, October 19/20, for World Mission Sunday. Organized by the Propagation of the Faith, this is a day set aside for Catholics worldwide to recommit themselves to the Church's missionary activity through prayer and sacrifice. Please be as generous as your means allow.

PLEASE NOTE: The rectory office will be closed Monday, October 14 for the holiday. There is no 7 AM Mass on Columbus Day. If there is an emergency and you need a priest, please call 732 370-7125.

THANK YOU The Respect Life Ministry wishes to thank all who responded to the flower sale for Birthright last weekend. Donations amounted to $1,024.35. God bless!

PARISH JOURNAL SHARING OUR TREASURE Stewardship, A Way of Life Weekly Sacrificial Offertory • Number using envelopes

DIOCESAN PILGRIMAGE NEWS: As we continue to observe the Year of Faith, the pilgrimage’s focus this year will be “The

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Family as the Garden of Faith”. Your devotional materials will support this theme. As a reminder, the bus will be in the lower parking lot and we will leave 7 AM sharp. Please remember to bring your rosaries. Looking forward to a spiritually rewarding and enjoyable day. - Josette Peterson

once a week on Tuesday afternoon from 4:00 – 5:15. Registration is required for all children to participate. This program is an international program and has been part of the Diocese of Trenton for over 20 years. This program is free but does need a commitment by the parent/guardian for the child to attend each week. The facilitators for the group are bereavement and Rainbows certified and have completed all the necessary training for working with children.

ATTENTION SNOW BIRDS! Please notify the rectory of the dates you will be away for the winter season. We will be happy to suspend your envelopes until your return in the spring!

If you are interested in this program, please call 732-363-8262 or 732-600-4359 for further information. We look forward to helping your child grow through life storms.

HELP WANTED Cemetery Groundskeeper: The Cemetery is looking for a grounds person. Hours are M-F, 84, and occasional Saturdays, 9-1. The duties include maintenance of the grounds as well as machinery, preparing a grave, and being able to assist with entombments. Heavy lifting is required. Experience is a plus. Applications are available at the Cemetery Office.

BISHOP’S ANNUAL APPEAL UPDATE Please give at your convenience by any of the methods listed above. Thank-you for your support of the appeal in the past and for this upcoming year. Online site: http://www.bishopsannualappeal.com

Bus Driver: Holy Family School is in need of an on-call, as-needed bus driver with CDL license and passenger endorsement to drive our school bus during class trips, sporting events and other school activities. Anyone who is interested can contact Zally at 732 363-4771, ext. 202.

A history of the appeal at St. Mary’s…

RAINBOWS FOR ALL GOD’S CHILDREN Do you know a child who is suffering in some way because of the stress associated with divorce in the family, separation of parents, chronic illness, terminal illness, loss of a loved one? We offer a support group for children who are going through these life changes. We meet 5

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$104,000 $104,000 $105,000 $105,000 $105,000 $105,000 $105,000 $105,000 $105,000 $115,000 $115,000 $115,000 $115,000 $115,000

Total Pledged $149,499 $159,054 $143,749 $137,374 $131,477 $130,274 $122,557 $122,565 $114,982 $118,706 $120,598 $129,083 $124,626 $103,678

% of Goal 144% 153% 137% 131% 125% 124% 117% 117% 110% 103% 105% 112% 108% 90%

HouseHolds 576 591 519 572 557 494 537 520 487 497 500 506 490 422

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FAITH ENRICHMENT

Donation: $10/person

LAY CARMELITES

Complimentary edibles 5:30 – 7:30 PM provided by Carrabba’s Italian Grill. Tickets available at the door or can be purchased through Interfaith Hospitality from 9-3 Monday – Friday at 253 Chestnut St., Toms River or by calling 732 736-1550

Are you interested in joining us in a spiritual journey of faith and love? For more information, call Lydia at 732-279-9939.

PARISH COMMUNITIES HOLY FAMILY SCHOOL

CHRISTMAS PARTY Rosary Altar Society and the Catholic Daughters, Court 310 are having their annual Christmas Party at Woodlake Country Club on Thursday, December 12 at 6 PM. All ministries and parishioners are invited to attend. Cost is $30. For reservations call Gloria Molinaro, 732 942-0107 or Rosemarie Tests, 732 367-4910.

The Annual Trunk or Treat is October 27th from 3:30-5 PM in the school parking lot. Haunted bus, hand and face painting, costume contest, baked goodie sale, music, best trunk contest too! Come join us for this great yearly fun! WRIST BANDS ARE SOLD for this event. Wrist bands are $3.00 Please contact Stefanie Hilarczyk of the PTA for more info, 732 3634771, ext. 203.

ST. VINCENT DE PAUL COAT DRIVE

KIDS Stuff Coupon Books are NOW available at the school till October 15th!! Books are $25 and make great Christmas gifts or just because!

Please … coats only! We are looking for warm, gently-used coats for adults and/or children. Please drop off at pantry during normal operating hours by November 21. Costs will be distributed on Saturday, November 23.

The 26th Annual Tricky Tray is November 10th!!! Tickets are going on sale soon! Please call 732-363-4771, ext 203 to reserve your tickets.

St. Vincent de Paul Pantry Hours of Operation Monday – 9:30 AM–12:30 PM Tuesday – 1 PM–4 PM Wednesday - 9:30 AM–12:30 PM Thursday – 9:30 AM-12:30 PM Saturday – 9:30 AM-12:30 PM

Mrs. Stankovics, our music teacher, is helping our 8th graders with a service project. We are looking for gently used or new cd’s and cd players. All will be donated to local nursing homes, children in daycare and hospice agencies around the area. Please think about helping our 8th graders with this awesome project. All donations can be dropped off at school Monday-Friday from 8:30 AM -2:30 PM.

2ND ANNUAL LADIES NIGHT

Volunteers: We are always looking for help! If you are kind, outgoing and love to help, we might have a great opportunity for you to help out at HFS. We are looking for volunteers in various areas. Please contact Stefanie Hilarczyk at school, 732-363-4771, ext. 203 for more information.

sponsored by Interfaith Hospitality Network of Ocean County Door Prizes ~ Gift Auction ~Gift Vendors Friday, November 1 anytime between 5 PM and 9 PM Presbyterian Church of Toms River 6

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PARISH MINISTRY FAIR

Faith Formation • Parish Religious Education Program (PREP) • Jr. High Youth Ministry and Confirmation Preparation • RCIA for adults • RCIA for children • Children’s Liturgy of the Word • Holy Family School: Elementary School K-8; Pre-School; Summer Camp • Administrative Volunteers o The Finance Council o The Parish Council o Money Counters o The Fundraising Committee • Parish Safety Coordinators for the Charter for the Protecting God’s Children (Virtus and background checks)

PARISH MINISTRY FAIR Saturday & Sunday, October 19 & 20 Guild Hall We are planning a “Parish Ministry Fair” following the Saturday evening and Sunday morning Masses at Saint Mary of the Lake. Stop by to learn about the many organizations that make up our Parish and see if you’d like to participate in their good works. We hope to have every society, organization and ministry of the parish to display their group’s mission and seek new members. (And in the spring of 2014, we plan to repeat the Fair over at Holy Family Chapel.) The Parish Council is organizing this Ministry Fair and the St. Vincent de Paul Society is providing the light refreshments.

Polish Language Much of what our parish provides in services is duplicated but in Polish for the Polish-speaking people in our region of the state. Fr. Marion could use help in the Polish-language liturgies he offers as well as with sacramental preparation. Additionally all are invited to participate in or help run: • Polish School • Polish Hand Ball League • Polish Dance

The following is the list of ministries and organizations at our parish. If we missed yours… Sorry! Please let us know! Liturgical Ministries: • Sacramental Ministries provided by parish priests and deacons • Lectors • Eucharistic Ministers o distributers at Masses and Sacristans o to the Hospital o to Nursing Homes (also leading Communion Services) o to the Homebound • Eucharistic Adoration • Consolation Ministry (Funeral Planning) • Altar Servers (youth at Sunday Masses and adults helping with Funerals and daily Masses) • Music (Cantors, choirs, musicians) • Baptismal Ceremony Set-up • Baptismal Prep • Wedding Prep • Annulment Advocates • Ushers

Support Groups and Outreach Ministries • Bereavement Support • Cemetery • Interfaith Hospitality • Respect Life • St. Vincent de Paul • Caregivers • Parish Nursing Societies • Girl Scouts • Legion of Mary • Catholic Daughters of the Americas • Knights of Columbus • Rosary Altar Society • STARs (Seniors Together At Retirement) Associated Groups 7

• Neighborhood Associations: St. Mary’s Guild (Leisure Village); Lake Ridge; Fairways • AA • Catholic Women of Zion • Ultreya • Healing Mass

FATHER-SON DINNER “The Role of the Father in the Family and Our World” – celebrating the wonders of the father and son relationship with reflection by Dan Duddy, Pastoral Minister of Athletics Sunday, October 20, 6 PM Church of Epiphany All Purpose Room 615 Thiele Road, Brick $5 per person

MINISTRY FAIR TV RAFFLE The Ministry Fair isn’t exclusively a drive for volunteers, it’s also a community building event as our parishioners come together and talk to each other and share their work and experience of being a parish family. As a fun way to encourage fuller participation in the Ministry Fair among everyone coming out to Mass that weekend, we’ll be holding prize drawings for two flat screen TVs.

Dinner open to fathers, sons, grandsons, grandfathers, uncles, nephews, etc. Children should be 10 years of age or older. For reservations, call John Crosio at 732 840-0091.

MASS INTENTIONS FOR 2014 Requests for Mass intentions for 2014 will take place during the whole month of November. Because of the large number of requests for intentions, we will still keep the same limitations that we had last year.

As you come to visit the tables staffed by representatives of all our ministries and organizations, you’ll be able to pick up tickets for prize drawings and then you’ll place those tickets in a container for the drawing.

All intentions are for deceased individuals announced by their first and last name. Since the parish now automatically schedules a ‘month’s mind’ and anniversary intention for those who have recently died, we will send any extra intentions that come in for that deceased person to the missions. Any other intention requests will be collected during the month of November and then scheduled as best as we can, casting lots if there are conflicts. It is not a first-come, first-served policy. Everyone is limited to two Masses. You may include more than one person for a particular Mass.

Thanks to the Knights of Columbus and a cash donor for providing the TVs.

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Attention 8 Graders! Visit Ocean County’s ONLY Catholic high school, Msgr. Donovan, on Monday, October 21 at 7 PM. Monsignor Donovan High School, 711 Hooper Avenue, Toms River, NJ 08753. Call the Admissions Office at 732-349-8801, x 2426 for more information or go to www.mondonhs.com.

Opportunities for additional memorials will be the Mothers Day Novena intentions; the Fathers Day Novena intentions; and the All Souls intentions. Also, the vigil and sanctuary lights, and the bread and wine offerings may be memorialized. And soon, a memorial to be printed in the bulletin – details to be announced later. Also, Mass intentions for the deceased or for other intentions may be sent to the missions.

GIFT AUCTION St. Aloysius Altar Rosary Society will host an annual gift auction in the school gym, Bennetts Mills Road, Jackson on Saturday, October 19. Doors open at 6:30 PM and calling begins at 8 PM. Tickets are $10 per person. For tickets call Joanne, 732 928-8308 or Jean, 732 928-1351. 8

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DUSZPASTERSTWO POLSKIE Duszpasterz: Ks. Marian Kokorzycki Tel. 732- 363-0139, ext. 421 Cell. 484-368-4636 E-mail: [email protected] Website: www.stmaryofthelake.us

Polska Szkoła Dokształcająca im. Aleksandra Janta Połczyńskiego w Lakewood NJ dyrektor: Kasia Pawka Tel. 732-901-9546 Email: [email protected] Website: www.lakewoodpolishschool.com

MSZE ŚWIĘTE W JĘZYKU POLSKIM - W KAŻDĄ NIEDZIELĘ O GODZINIE 1:30 PM - W KAŻDĄ OSTATNIĄ SOBOTĘ MIESIĄCA 7:15 PM - JEST TO WIGILJA MSZY ŚWIĘTEJ NIEDZIELNEJ W INTENCJACH NASZYCH RODAKÓW ROZSIANYCH PO CAŁYM ŚWIECIE W KOŚCIELE SAINT MARY OF THE LAKE. W KAŻDY PIERWSZY PIĄTEK MIESĄCA – ADORACJA NAJŚWIĘTSZEGO SAKRAMENTU O GODZINIE 7:15 PM - MSZA ŚWIĘTA O GODZINIE 8:15 PM -W KOŚCIELE HOLY FAMILY W LAKEWOOD. MSZE ŚWIĘTE W ŚWIĘTA OBOWIĄZKOWE O GODZINIE 7:30 PM W KOŚCIELE SAINT MARY OF THE LAKE. MOŻLIWOŚĆ SAKRAMĘTU POJEDNANIA – SPOWIEDZI - PRZED KAŻDĄ MSZĄ ŚWIĘTĄ.

O GODZINIE

13 październik 2013 rok – XXVIII niedziela zwykła w ciągu roku Syryjski wódz Naaman chciał i umiał okazać wdzięczność za uzdrowienie. Niewierny i pogardzany przez prawowiernych Żydów, trędowaty Samarytanin także wiedział, co to jest wdzięczność. Ale, czy ja wiem, co to jest wdzięczność? Jakże często wołam o pomoc? Jakże często się jej domagam, a nawet żądam ... ale zwrotu "dziękuję bardzo" nie ma w moim słowniku. Albo z innej strony. Jezus nie był obojętny na wołanie i potrzebę, na biedę drugiego człowieka. Nie był głuchy, nie udawał, że nie słyszy, nie widzi, nie ma czasu ... Nikomu, kto prosił, kto był w potrzebie, kto był w niedostatku nie odmawiał, nie lekceważył, nie przechodził obok ... A ja? Czy widzę, czy słyszę, czy zauważam? Czy też udaję, że nie ma sprawy, że nie mam czasu, że jestem zajęty ... A może nawet do głowy mi nie przyjdzie, że mogę, że leży to w zasięgu moich możliwości ... Może nawet nie pomyślę o tym, że mógłbym pomóc Jezusie, Mistrzu, ulituj się nad nami ...

Intencje Mszy Świętej: 13 październik – ś.p. Zbigniew Banach – intencja Teresy i Stanisława 20 październik - ś.p. Elżbieta Bogusz – intencja Cori

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....... zbliżają się Święta Wszystkich Świętych – Dnia Zadusznych- będziemy się modlić za naszych drogich nam zmarłych w dniach 1, 2 i 3 listopada podczas mszy świętych wymienjając ich imiona i prosząc o niebo dla nich – kartki z imionami naszych bliskich zmarłch drukownymi literami czytelnie prosimy zostawiać TYLKO u księdza Mariana - w zakrysti - lub u Pana Roberta – Bóg zapłać. ....... Koncert popierający naszą Szkołę Holy Family “You’ll Never Walk Alone” will be held at the Fine Arts Center at Ocean Couty College, Toms River on Sunday, November 3 at 3 PM. Tickets are $20 and are available at the rectory. ....... Pierwsza Komunia w języku polskim będzie miała miejsce w maju. Spotkanie organizacyjne bedzie miało miejsce 13 października 2013 po Mszy sw. o godz 1:30 pm. Zajęcia odbywają się w budynku Holy Family School przy 1143 E. County Line Rd. Szczegółowe informacje o szkole znajdują się na stronie www.lakewoodpolishschool.com ……. 1 października 2013 rozpoczęła się Loteria Wizowa (DV- 2015) na podania można składać drogą elektroniczną do 2 listopada 2013 w następny poniedziałek w polskiej szkole w Lakewood w godzinach 6:30 pm do 8:00 pm można skorzystać z pomocy przy wysyłaniu zgłoszeń – zapraszamy ! ....... rozpoczęliśmy przygotowania do koronacji Ikony Matki Bożej Częstochowskiej – Naszej Matki – Matki Imigrantów w 2014 - prosimy o modlitwę. ... dziękuję Wszystkim Naszym Rodakom dobrej woli za zaangażowanie się w polskim duszpasterstwie w naszej polskiej szkole w Lakewood – w polskich organizacjach - niech Wam Bóg błogosławi - ks. marian 4