Steps (Week 3) – The Response of Faith: Repentance Michael Snetzer – September 18, 2013

 

I  couldn't  be  more  excited  than  to  be  here  with  you  tonight.  This  is  one  of  my  very  favorite  parts  of   the  week.  Tonight  we  get  to  look  at  some  of  God's  precious  truths.  I  will  say  on  the  front  end  that  I   do  have  a  fear  for  many  of  us.  I  have  a  pastoral  concern  for  many  of  us.  I  fear  that,  like  me  earlier  in   my  life,  you  have  never  really  heard  the  fullness  of  the  gospel.  The  message  we  often  hear  of  the   gospel  is  full  of  the  benefits  of  the  gospel  but  often  is  incomplete  in  terms  of  what  is  required  to  be  a   Christ  follower.     I  believe  many  of  us  have  been  brought  up  in  a  kind  of  cultural  Christianity  that  I  would  argue  is   actually  no  Christianity  at  all.  It's  more  in  line  with  the  American  dream  than  it  is  the  call  Christ  calls   us  to.  In  these  instances,  as  Matt  alluded  to  in  one  of  his  recent  messages,  Jesus  just  becomes  an   add-­‐on  to  our  lives  and  doesn't  radically  alter  the  trajectory  of  our  lives.  Tonight  this  message  is   called  The  Response  of  Faith:  Repentance.       Growing  up,  I'm  not  sure  I  ever  heard  the  full  gospel;  it  was  incomplete.  Maybe  it  was  incomplete,  or   maybe  it  was  just  I  couldn't  hear  all  the  gospel  was  calling  me  to,  but  regardless,  I  remember  being   comforted  by  the  fact  that  Christ  died  for  my  sins.  I  remember  being  just  comforted  by  the  fact  that   it  was  a  free  gift.  It  was  something  I  could  not  earn;  I  could  go  to  heaven  because  of  what  Christ  did.   Who  wouldn't  want  that,  right?  We  could  live  eternally  with  God!     I  lived  for  the  first  15  years  of  my  adult  life  believing  I  was  a  Christian  when  the  the  gospel  I  had   believed  was  merely  a  life  insurance  policy  so  I  could  continue  to  sin.  I  could  continue  to  sin  all  the   more  so  grace  would  abound.  Paul,  as  he  unpacks  the  gospel,  says  may  that  never  be  the  heart  of  a   believer.  May  that  never  be  the  heart  of  a  believer  that  grace  would  be  cheap,  because  grace  is  very   costly,  as  we'll  look  at  tonight.     I  lived  a  life  where  I  felt  free  to  sin  all  the  more.  Paul  goes  on  to  argue.  He  says  that's  even   impossible  for  the  believer  because  of  something  called  regeneration.  We've  been  given  a  new  heart  

and  new  affections.  It  doesn't  mean  we  don't  sin.  It  means  when  we  sin,  our  desire  is  to  return  to   God,  to  be  obedient  to  God.  We  have  been  given  hearts  that  desire  obedience.  God  still  desires   obedience  out  of  his  children,  but  the  obedience  goes  from  kind  of  "I  have  to"  ("I  have  to  be   obedient  to  God")  to  "I  want  to."  That's  evidence  of  God's  grace.  That's  evidence  he  has  changed  our   hearts;  he  has  written  his  law  on  our  hearts.     The  gospel  is  not  only  a  comfort,  but  it  is  also  a  call  to  something  so  radically  different  and  so   countercultural  that  it  is  worth  forsaking  all  the  world  values.  In  Mark  1:14b  and  15,  it  says,  "Jesus   came  into  Galilee,  proclaiming  the  gospel  of  God,  and  saying,  'The  time  is  fulfilled,  and  the   kingdom  of  God  is  at  hand;  repent  and  believe  in  the  gospel.'"       I  want  to  orient  us  here  for  just  a  minute.  Last  week,  we  talked  about  this  kind  of  high-­‐level  gospel   view,  the  gospel  from  the  air.  We  talked  about  creation.  Remember?  Then  we  talked  about  fall.  Then   we  talked  about  redemption.  Then  we  talked  about  consummation.  This  we  want  to  look  at  from  a   little  bit  different  angle,  a  little  bit  more  personal  angle,  something  you  and  I  have  to  contend  with   personally.  We've  looked  at  God.  We've  looked  at  man.  We  saw  last  week  the  intervention  of  Christ.       Now  we're  going  to  look  at  how  we  are  to  respond  to  this  glorious  gospel,  this  good  news  that  light   has  entered  the  darkness.  Light  has  invaded  the  dark  spaces.  Now  how  are  we  called  to  respond  to   that  glorious  gospel?  I  would  say  evidence  that  faith  has  taken  root  in  our  hearts,  that  we  have   received  the  good  news  of  the  gospel,  will  lead  us  to  repentance,  to  worship,  to  gratitude,  to   surrender,  to  love,  and  to  obedience.     This  week  our  two  primary  texts  will  be  Luke  15  in  terms  of  fostering  a  better  idea  of  what  biblical   repentance  looks  like.  We're  going  to  compare  that  to  what  worldly  sorrow  looks  like.  Maybe  you'll   tonight  find  yourself  more  on  the  worldly  sorrow  side,  but  God  is  here.  He  is  among  us.  He  is  with   us.  He  is  shaping  our  hearts  and  leading  us  to  a  type  of  sorrow  before  God,  a  breaking  of  our  hearts,   a  softening  of  our  hearts  so  we  might  find  life  and  peace,  and  we  might  not  be  stuck  in  that  insanity   we  talked  about  last  week.     Before  we  get  to  that,  before  we  get  to  Luke  15,  the  first  thing  I  want  to  do  is  to  try  to  reconcile   something  for  us.  My  mentor  in  biblical  counseling  was  a  man  named  Jerry.  He  was  really  excited  as   he  came  into  the  office  one  day.  I  think  he  had  overhead  some  sort  of  a  radio  program.  He  just  had   this  visual  contrasting  these  ideas,  these  two  sides  of  God,  of  God's  mercy  and  God's  justice.  How   can  a  God  be  perfectly  merciful  and,  at  the  same  time,  be  perfectly  just?  

  I  think  the  only  way  we  can  reconcile  those  two  things  is  through  the  cross  of  Jesus  Christ.  I  just   want  to  give  you  just  an  illustration  of  what  that  might  look  like.  In  Romans  3:23,  it  says  all  of   mankind  is  on  a  one-­‐way  track  to  death.  That's  kind  of  where  we  spent  our  time  two  weeks  ago.  We   saw  the  redeemed  step  one  truth  there.  We  are  all  on  this  one-­‐way  track.  Unless  someone   intervenes,  unless  someone  who  has  the  power  to  break  sin  and  to  save  us  from  death  intervenes   into  this,  this  is  the  track  we're  all  on.     But  God  has  intervened  through  Jesus.  I  don't  want  you  to  look  at  this  as  kind  of  a  ladder.  I  want  you   to  look  at  this  as  a  track,  a  track  leading  to  life  through  Jesus  Christ.  We  see  we  were  in  our  sin,  and   we  see  Jesus  comes  and  offers  a  way  to  life  as  he  lived  a  life  we  couldn't  live,  a  life  of  righteousness.   Jesus  says,  "I  am  the  way,  and  the  truth,  and  the  life.  No  one  comes  to  the  Father  except   through  me."  We  have  this  example  of  love  in  Jesus  Christ  as  he  comes  and  offers  life.     This  mercy  God  has  shown  us  through  Christ…  It  says  in  Romans  2:4,  "Or  do  you  presume  on  the   riches  of  his  kindness  and  forbearance  and  patience,  not  knowing  that  God's  kindness  is   meant  to  lead  you  to  repentance?"  I  think  part  of  what  this  is  saying  is  just  because  God  is  patient,   just  because  he  is  kind,  just  because  he  has  not  been  quick  to  anger,  just  because  he  has  not  wiped   us  out  as  a  people,  don't  think  that  means  he  doesn't  care.  Don't  think  just  because  he  has  not   poured  out  his  wrath  on  us  he  does  not  care  about  your  sin.     He  cares!  He  cares  so  much  that  he  would  send  his  Son  to  the  cross.  Jesus  cares  so  much  about  sin   that  he  would  go  to  the  cross  and  lay  his  life  down.  There  has  to  be  something  that  happens  here.   Some  will  call  this  the  great  exchange,  where  Jesus  becomes  our  sin.  It  says  in  2  Corinthians  5:21,   "For  our  sake  he  made  him  to  be  sin  who  knew  no  sin…"  He  becomes  sin  on  our  behalf.  Guess   what  we  get?  We  get  his  righteousness.       Second  Corinthians  5:21b  says,  "…so  that  in  him  we  might  become  the  righteousness  of  God."   That's  pretty  cool  that  he  would  impute  his  righteousness  to  us,  but  there's  something  that's   happening  here.  The  question  is  how  do  we  get  on  the  other  track?  I  think  biblically  (and  I  think   there  are  two  sides  to  the  same  coin)  it's  called  faith  and  repentance.  You  don't  get  righteousness   and  just  continue  on  the  same  track  you're  on.  It  calls  you  to  something  radically  different.     I  know  some  of  you  are  really  uncomfortable  right  now  because  I'm  talking  to  you,  but  that's  okay.  I   pray  God  is  speaking  to  your  heart  and  leading  you  to  something  better.  Acts  17.  Remember  when  

we  finished  up  last  week?  It  said,  "The  times  of  ignorance  God  overlooked,  but  now  he   commands  all  people  everywhere  to  repent,  because  he  has  fixed  a  day  on  which  he  will   judge  the  world  in  righteousness  by  a  man  whom  he  has  appointed;  and  of  this  he  has  given   assurance  to  all  by  raising  him  from  the  dead."     God  is  commanding  all  people  everywhere  to…what?    To  repent.  Some  of  us  oftentimes  are   offended  by  that  word  repent.  I  mean,  only  the  self-­‐righteous  would  go,  "What  do  I  have  a  need  to   repent  for?"  Right?  We  need  to  remember  the  commands  of  God.  Remember  back  in  Genesis  2  when   God  said,  "Don't  eat  of  the  fruit  of  the  tree  in  the  garden"?  Right?  The  Tree  of  Knowledge  of  Good   and  Evil.  What  is  he  trying  to  do?  He  is  trying  to  preserve  their  lives.       In  the  same  way,  this  command  is  attempting  to  preserve  our  lives.  It's  calling  us  to  life.  He  is  not   withholding  life  from  us;  he  is  inviting  us  into  it.  Remember  this  cycle  of  insanity.  When  we  left  off,   we  said  there's  this  kind  of  remorse  that  comes  after  these  injuries  and  pain,  and  there  are  two   kinds  of  sorrow.  There's  the  kind  of  sorrow  that  will  keep  you  perpetually  stuck  in  this  insanity  and   there's  the  kind  of  sorrow  that  produces  repentance  without  regret  leading  to  salvation.     There's  worldly  sorrow  and  there's  godly  sorrow.  Second  Corinthians  7:10:  "For  godly  grief   produces  a  repentance  that  leads  to  salvation  without  regret,  whereas  worldly  grief   produces  death."  My  hope  is  that  God  tonight  would  not  allow  one  person  here  to  leave  regretful.  I   think  in  some  sense,  each  one  of  us  has  landed  here  for  one  reason  or  another  because  of   difficulties,  because  of  suffering  and  sorrow.  It  wouldn't  just  be  worldly.  God  would  grant   repentance  and  life  to  those  he  has  gathered  here.     We're  going  to  look  at  what  is  called  the  parable  of  the  prodigal  son.  I'm  going  to  borrow  some   language  here  and  call  it  the  parable  of  the  two  lost  sons,  because  both  sons  in  this  parable  are  lost.   We're  going  to  look  first  at  the  first  part  of  Luke  15,  verses  1  and  2.  Then  we'll  move  into  the   parable.  I  know  this  probably  has  been  a  rich  text  for  each  of  you  as  you  were  in  the  Word  this   week.  Starting  in  verse  1,  it  says,  "Now  the  tax  collectors  and  sinners  were  all  drawing  near  to   hear  him.  And  the  Pharisees  and  the  scribes  grumbled,  saying,  'This  man  receives  sinners   and  eats  with  them.'"     The  first  thing  we  just  want  to  notice  is  the  fact  that  there  are  both  the  sinners  and  tax  collectors.   That's  one  group  of  people.  Then  you  have  the  Pharisees  and  the  scribes.  You  have  the  sinners,  and   you  have  the  self-­‐righteous.  The  second  thing  I  want  to  point  out  just  here  right  before  we  get  into  

this  particular  parable  is  just  the  response,  because  we  see  in  the  parable  of  the  lost  sheep,  the   parable  of  the  lost  coin,  and  this  parable  similar  responses.     In  the  parable  of  the  lost  sheep  in  verse  7,  it  says,  "Just  so,  I  tell  you,  there  will  be  more  joy  in   heaven  over  one  sinner  who  repents  than  over  ninety-­‐nine  righteous  persons  who  need  no   repentance."  Do  you  see  what's  happening  there?  Joy  in  heaven.  Rejoicing.  We  should  never  be   ashamed  to  come  home  to  God.  Then  we  see  in  verse  10,  "Just  so,  I  tell  you,  there  is  joy  before  the   angels  of  God  over  one  sinner  who  repents."     Then  we  turn  our  attention  here  to  this  parable.  "And  [Jesus]  said,  'There  was  a  man  who  had   two  sons.'"  So  this  is  a  story  about  two  sons.  "And  the  younger  of  them  said  to  his  father,   'Father,  give  me  the  share  of  property  that  is  coming  to  me.'"  It's  interesting  here  (this  younger   son).  I  think  this  younger  son  has  some  idea  of  authority.  This  idea  of  authority  that  in  his  father's   house,  under  his  father's  covering,  come  several  things:  provision,  protection,  the  presence  of  his   father,  and  direction.     I  think,  just  like  in  Christianity…you  know,  we  talked  about  the  benefits  without  the   responsibilities…I  think  oftentimes  in  our  culture,  and  even  what  I  would  call  entitlement,  is   wanting  the  benefits  without  the  responsibility.  "I  want  the  protection  of…"  Those  of  us  who  have   teenage  kids,  oftentimes  they  want  the  benefits  of  living  under  their  parents'  covering,  but  they   don't  want  the  responsibility.  They  don't  want  to  answer  to  anyone.  You  know,  those  of  you  who   have  children  that  age.     I  think  this  young  man  has  some  idea  of,  "Hey,  this  is  a  package  deal."  He  realizes  he  cannot  live   under  his  father's  covering,  under  his  father's  roof,  and  live  the  way  he  wants  to  live.  This  forces  the   son  to  make  a  decision.  "You  can  either  stay  and  live  under  my  rules  and  my  guidelines,  or  you  can   go."  We  don't  see  a  lot  of  arguing  by  the  father.  The  son  shows  he  is  really  more  interested  in  the   father's  stuff  than  he  is  relationship  with  the  father.     In  a  way,  he  is  saying,  "I'm  counting  you  as  dead."  Right?  First  of  all,  you  need  to  understand  an   inheritance  is  not  earned.  It's  something  that's  bestowed  upon  you.  To  think  you  deserve  that  is  just   as  kind  of  insane  as  thinking  we  deserve  to  go  to  heaven.  You  know?  There  is  that  idea  that  he  is   saying,  "I  want  your  stuff,  but  I  don't  want  you."  Then  the  question  becomes,  "Is  the  father   enabling?"  Because  this  has  really  provoked  a  lot  of  questions  in  me.  What  is  enabling?    

First  of  all,  I  want  you  to  know  enabling  is  not  enabling  a  person  to  get  help.  That's  not  enabling  in  a   bad  way.  That's  enabling  in  a  good  way.  Enabling  in  a  bad  way,  I  think  biblically,  is  allowing  those   you're  responsible  for  to  continue  to  live  under  your  covering  without  consequence  when  they're   being  disobedient.  Okay?  That's  enabling,  but  that's  not  what's  going  on  here  with  the  father.  He  is   saying,  "If  that's  what  you  want,  then…"  He  doesn't  resist  him.     In  a  way,  he  preserves  the  relationship  and  gives  him  what  is  rightfully  his  even  though  he  didn't   deserve  it.  He  gives  it  to  him,  and  having  the  means  is  going  to  expose  his  heart,  what  he  really   loves.  It  says,  "And  he  divided  his  property  between  them.  Not  many  days  later,  the  younger   son  gathered  all  he  had  and  took  a  journey  into  a  far  country,  and  there  he  squandered  his   property  in  reckless  living."  I  can  remember  in  my  life  God  giving  me  a  great  job,  a  job  in  which  I   was  making  a  ton  of  money.  Guess  what  it  revealed?  It  revealed  what  I  really  loved,  because  that's   what  I  spent  my  money  on.  I  squandered  it.       It  says,  "And  when  he  had  spent  everything,  a  severe  famine  arose  in  that  country,  and  he   began  to  be  in  need."  Sin  is  costly.  It  will  ravage  your  life.  We  see  some  desperation  here  in  this   young  man.  "So  he  went  and  hired  himself  out  to  one  of  the  citizens  of  that  country,  who  sent   him  into  his  fields  to  feed  pigs."  Now  this  is  a  Jewish  boy  with  unclean  animals.  He  is  pretty   desperate.  "And  he  was  longing  to  be  fed  with  the  pods  that  the  pigs  ate,  and  no  one  gave  him   anything."     There's  a  picture  of  longing  for  sin.  That's  a  picture  from  God's  perspective  of  sin.  You  are  longing   for  the  pods  the  pigs  ate.  No  one  is  feeling  sorry  for  this  young  man.  No  one  is  giving  him  anything   to  eat.  This  is  his  best  thinking,  his  best  decisions,  in  trying  to  find  satisfaction  apart  from  his  father.   This  is  where  it's  landed  him.  He  thinks  he  is  in  hog  heaven,  but  he  is  not.  He  is  in  the  pigpen.  Listen.   He  is  not  a  pig.  He  is  a  son!  He's  not  where  he  belongs.     "But  when  he  came  to  himself…"  This  is  just  a  picture  of  repentance.  It's  like  suddenly  this  young   man's  eyes  are  opened  to  the  reality  of  his  situation.  "But  when  he  came  to  himself,  he  said,  'How   many  of  my  father's  hired  servants  have  more  than  enough  bread,  but  I  perish  here  with   hunger!  I  will  arise  and  go  to  my  father,  and  I  will  say  to  him,  "Father,  I  have  sinned   against  heaven  and  before  you.  I  am  no  longer  worthy  to  be  called  your  son.  Treat  me  as  one   of  your  hired  servants."'"    

He  is  willing  to  get  up.  He  will  arise.  He  has  a  willingness  to  get  up  and  to  make  it  right,  to  accept   whatever  consequences  come  his  way.  He  humbles  himself  as  an  unworthy  servant.  He  is  not   entitled  anymore.  He  doesn't  say,  "You  owe  me  this,"  or,  "You  owe  me  that."  He  had  already   squandered  all  he  was  entitled  to.  There  was  nothing  left  to  claim.  "And  he  arose  and  came  to  his   father."  He  didn't  just  say,  "I'm  going  to  do  it."  It  wasn't  always,  "This  is  what  I'm  going  to  do,"  but   actually  it  moved  him.     Faith  is  active.  Faith  without  works  is  dead.  It's  not  just  about  saying  you're  going  to  do  something.   It's  about  actually  taking  a  step  of  obedience  in  faith.  It  led  him  to  action.  "And  he  arose  and  came   to  his  father.  But  while  he  was  still  a  long  way  off,  his  father  saw  him  and  felt  compassion,   and  ran  and  embraced  him  and  kissed  him."  Look  at  the  response  of  the  father.  He  is  watching!   He  is  waiting!  I  mean,  the  son  is  still  reeking  from  the  pigpen,  and  he  runs  and  gives  him  a  big  hug   and  he  kisses  him.     "And  the  son  said  to  him,  'Father,  I  have  sinned  against  heaven  and  before  you.  I  am  no   longer  worthy  to  be  called  your  son.'"  Even  before  he  can  get  it  out,  the  father  has  heard  enough   evidently  and  interrupts  him  and  says…  "But  the  father  said  to  his  servants,  'Bring  quickly  the   best  robe,  and  put  it  on  him,  and  put  a  ring  on  his  hand,  and  shoes  on  his  feet.'"  He  is  not   looking  for  anything  for  himself  personally  out  of  this.  He  is  not  putting  himself  between  his  son   and  God  and  saying,  "Oh  yeah?  Well,  then  you're  going  to  have  to  do  this.  You're  going  to  have  to  do   this."  He  receives  him  back.     We  see  here  just  the  provision  of  the  father,  just  a  picture  of  us  coming  home  in  Christ.  This  robe  he   is  given  is  a  robe  of  righteousness.  It  covers  his  filth,  his  shame.  He  is  given  a  ring,  and  this  ring  is  a   representation  that  he  belongs  to  this  family.  There's  belonging.  Then  we  see  the  sandals  for  his   feet.  He  is  treated  as  he  is  as  a  son  rather  than  a  slave.  He  comes  as  a  slave.  He  comes  in  humility,   but  he  is  blessed.  Do  you  think  he  is  grateful?  You  bet  he  is  grateful.     It  says  the  father  says,  "'And  bring  the  fattened  calf  and  kill  it,  and  let  us  eat  and  celebrate.  For   this  my  son  was  dead,  and  is  alive  again;  he  was  lost,  and  is  found.'  And  they  began  to   celebrate."  I  heard  one  guy  talking  about  this.  I  agree  with  most  of  what  he  teaches,  but  one  of  the   questions  he  asked  is  who  did  it  cost  the  most  for  this  son's  reconciliation  with  the  father?  I  would   say  the  calf.  It  cost  the  calf  his  life!  Right?      

This  shows  us  the  seriousness  of  sin.  I  mean,  somebody  has  to  die.  Reconciliation  costs  the  life  of  an   innocent  calf,  a  fatted  calf  that  is  apportioned  for  many.  Jesus  was  the  Lamb  of  God  who  was   sacrificed  on  our  behalf  that  we  might  have  reconciliation  to  the  Father.  We  see  the  response  to  this   repentance  in  celebration,  but  not  all  celebrate.  Not  the  self-­‐righteous,  because  it's  not  fair.       "Now  his  older  son  was  in  the  field,  and  as  he  came  and  drew  near  to  the  house,  he  heard   music  and  dancing.  And  he  called  one  of  the  servants  and  asked  what  these  things   meant.  And  he  said  to  him,  'Your  brother  has  come,  and  your  father  has  killed  the  fattened   calf,  because  he  has  received  him  back  safe  and  sound.'"  You  would  think  there  would  be  joy  in   this  young  man's  heart.  "But  he  was  angry  and  refused  to  go  in."     What  does  his  father  do?  "His  father  came  out  and  entreated  him…"  He  doesn't  want  grace  for   his  younger  brother.  He  wants  the  law.  His  father  entreats  him  to  come  in,  to  repent,  and  to  join  the   party,  to  maintain  relationship  with  the  father,  otherwise  he  might  end  up  outside  of  the  party.   Then  it  says,  "…but  he  answered  his  father,  'Look,  these  many  years  I  have  served  you,  and  I   never  disobeyed  your  command,  yet  you  never  gave  me  a  young  goat,  that  I  might  celebrate   with  my  friends.'"     First  of  all,  look  at  the  self-­‐centeredness  of  this  young  man.  "I  served  you.  I  never  disobeyed.  You   never  gave  me…that  I…with  my  friends."  He  misses  the  fact  that  his  brother,  who  was  headed  for   destruction,  is  now  home.  Then  look  at  his  justification  for  his  relationship  with  his  father.  He  is   self-­‐justifying,  right?  His  justification  is  in  his  own  goodness,  in  his  own  obedience.  How  does  he   view  the  fatted  calf?  Just  a  young  goat.  He  treats  the  sacrifice  with  disdain.  He  doesn't  value  it.  He   doesn't  value  the  sacrifice,  just  like  the  self-­‐righteous  don't  value  the  sacrifice  of  Jesus.     "'But  when  this  son  of  yours  came,  who  has  devoured  your  property  with  prostitutes,  you   killed  the  fattened  calf  for  him!'  And  he  said  to  him,  'Son,  you  are  always  with  me,  and  all  that   is  mine  is  yours.  It  was  fitting  to  celebrate  and  be  glad,  for  this  your  brother  was  dead,  and  is   alive;  he  was  lost,  and  is  found.'"  We  don't  know  how  the  older  brother  responds.  We  don't  know   if  he  will  remain  outside  of  the  party  or  if  he  will  repent  and  come  in  and  join  the  celebration.     Let's  take  a  look  here  just  with  a  table  of  what  the  difference  between  godly,  grief-­‐producing   repentance  and  worldly  grief  looks  like.  On  this  left  side,  we  can  see  godly  grief  is  vertical  where   worldly  grief  is  horizontal.  Godly  grief  is  a  recognition  of  where  I've  been  before  God  first  and   foremost.  Remember  in  the  story?  He  says,  "I  have  sinned  against  heaven  and  before  you."  

Worldly  grief  is  just  grieved  over  my  circumstances.  "I  got  busted.  I  lost  my  wife.  I  lost  my  kids."  It's   not  oriented  around  God.       This  godly  grief  is  God-­‐  and  others-­‐focused,  where  worldly  grief  is  self-­‐focused.  It  wallows  around   in  self-­‐pity  and  says,  "Poor  me,"  and  lives  kind  of  as  a  victim.  Godly  grief  is  spiritual,  that  God  might   grant  us  repentance.  That's  what  we're  praying  for:  God  might  grant  us  a  softening  of  our  hearts   that  we  might  experience  a  godly  sorrow  that  would  lead  to  life,  where  worldly  grief  is  purely   emotional.  It's  not  that  godly  grief  is  not  emotional;  it's  just  that  worldly  grief  is  only  emotional.       Godly  grief  has  a  willingness  to  do  whatever  needs  to  happen.  "I've  been  reconciled  to  the  Father.   My  heart  has  been  changed.  If  I  have  offended  somebody,  then  I  want  to  make  that  right."  See,  we'll   learn  later  when  we  talk  a  little  bit  more  about  reconciliation  that  the  gospel  reconciles  a  heart  in  a   way  that  the  law  can't.  The  law  can  do  it  outwardly,  but  the  gospel  can  transform  a  heart  of   injustice,  where  worldly  grief  is  demanding.  It's,  "I  will  do  this,  and  I  won't  do  this.  There  are  things  I   will  and  I  won't  do."     Godly  grief  is  active,  and  worldly  grief  is  passive.  As  a  pastor,  these  can  be  pretty  revealing,  because   you  can  have  somebody  who  comes  in,  and  they  confess  a  lot.  But  then  when  you  say,  "Okay,  why   don't  you  go  get  involved  in  our  Recovery  ministry?  Why  don't  you  go  begin  to  live  in  biblical   community  and  live  that  out?"  there  is  a  resistance  to  that  or  an  all-­‐out,  "No,  I  won't  do  that.  There   are  certain  things  I  will  and  I  won't  do."     I'm  not  saying  this  is  the  place  somebody  has  to  go  in  order  to  experience  repentance.  It's  just  are   you  willing  to  live  the  way  God  has  called  you  to  live,  in  open  community  and  accountability  and   those  sorts  of  things?  Godly  grief  is  hopeful.  I  mean,  think  about  this.  If  I've  been  reconciled  to  God,   if  I  have  the  most  wonderful  thing  in  the  universe,  the  thing  I  should  treasure  above  all  things,   whatever  it  cost  me,  then  I'm  without  regret  and  having  been  broken  in  that  moment.       It  doesn't  mean  I  don't  regret  what  has  happened  historically.  It's  forward-­‐looking.  "I've  been  given   grace."  Worldly  grief  is  going  to  be  hopeless.  It's  going  to  be  continually  looking  back  to  the  good  ol'   days,  you  know,  as  if  being  caught  up  in  sin  is  a  great…  I  mean,  it's  the  pigpen.  It's  like  looking  at  the   pigpen  and  longing  for  the  pigpen  still.  Godly  grief,  I  think,  and  repentance,  is  going  to  lead  us  to   gratitude.  We're  going  to  be  begrudging  with  worldly  grief.  Then  godly  grief  is  going  to  be   perseverant,  right?  There's  something  that's  been  radically  changed  in  me  internally  that  shapes  the   way  I  live  my  life  outwardly.  

  I'm  not  saying  I  never  sin  again.  I'm  saying  God  begins  to  lead  me  out  of  that  sin,  lead  me  out  of  that   slavery,  where  worldly  grief  is  temporary.  Why?  Because  there's  been  no  heart  change.  There's   been  no  heart  change,  and  really  what  I'm  doing  is  I'm  waiting  for  everyone  to  stop  looking  at  me  so   I  can  get  back  to  what  I  really  love.  Godly  grief  is  humble.  I  come  as  an  unworthy  slave,  not   demanding,  taking  responsibility,  and  accepting  the  consequences,  where  worldly  grief  is  prideful,   angry,  avoids  responsibility,  blames,  justifies,  minimizes,  and  avoids  consequences.     We  can  see  here  that  in  that  insanity  cycle  we  were  in  before,  we  can  do  this  through  irreligious   types  of  behaviors,  and  then  we  can  do  this  with  religious  types  of  behaviors  (what  we  might   describe  as  counterfeit  forms  of  redemption).  That  can  be  doing  religious  practices.  It  can  be   working  steps  apart  from  a  gospel  context.  Apart  from  Jesus,  it  doesn't  matter  what  we  do.  Until   God  shines  his  light  in  our  hearts  and  until  he  exposes  that  which  we  have  been  pursuing  that  is   unfruitful  and  really  reveals  to  us  the  life  that  is  in  Christ,  we  will  continue  repeatedly  in  this  cycle.     To  those  who  are  self-­‐righteous  who  might  not  be  able  to  understand  those  who  are  caught  up  in  an   irreligious-­‐type  cycle,  Romans  2:1  speaks  to  that  and  says,  "Therefore  you  have  no  excuse,  O   man,  every  one  of  you  who  judges.  For  in  passing  judgment  on  another  you  condemn   yourself,  because  you,  the  judge,  practice  the  very  same  things."  I  can't  tell  you  how  many   times  this  has  happened  in  my  life,  where  I've  judged  somebody,  and  then  I  end  up  being  that  guy.       How  will  you  respond  to  your  sin?  Because  we  said  this  is  personal  tonight.  How  will  you  respond   to  your  sin  and  God's  grace?  Once  we  are  saved,  once  we  give  our  lives  and  surrender  our  lives  to   Christ  and  we  say,  "Okay,  we're  in.  We're  all  in.  Whatever  it  costs,  I'm  in,"  then  we  can  begin  to   move  this  idea  of  repentance  counterclockwise.  You  know,  instead  of  it  being  after  the  injuries  and   pain  we  experience  this  sorrow  and  then  come  back  to  Christ,  perhaps  here  as  we're  working   around  this,  as  we're  tempted  in  our  flesh,  then  by  action  we  turn  to  God  rather  than  to  our  flesh.     If  you  want  to  turn,  you  can  really  quickly  to  Romans,  chapter  6.  There  in  verses  12  and  13  it  says,   "Let  not  sin  therefore  reign  in  your  mortal  body,  to  make  you  obey  its  passions.  Do  not   present  your  members  to  sin  as  instruments  for  unrighteousness,  but  present  yourselves  to   God  as  those  who  have  been  brought  from  death  to  life,  and  your  members  to  God  as   instruments  for  righteousness."  Perhaps  we  catch  it  earlier,  and  it's  just  in  this  thinking  and   obsessing  stage.  If  you  can  flip  over  maybe  a  page  or  two  to  Romans  8:5-­‐6  it  says  there:      

"For  those  who  live  according  to  the  flesh  set  their  minds  on  the  things  of  the  flesh,  but  those   who  live  according  to  the  Spirit  set  their  minds  on  the  things  of  the  Spirit.  For  to  set  the  mind   on  the  flesh  is  death,  but  to  set  the  mind  on  the  Spirit  is  life  and  peace."       Again,  we're  just  trying  to  learn  how  to  war  against  this  so  when  we  realize  when  the  Holy  Spirit   begins  to  show  us  what  we're  thinking  and  obsessing  on  and  when  it's  not  honoring  to  God,  then,   through  the  power  of  the  Holy  Spirit  we  can  begin  to  look  to  him  rather  than  to  it  for  satisfaction,   for  redemption.  Because  all  of  these  other  forms  are  going  to  be  counterfeit  forms.       Then  we  have  1  Corinthians  10:13-­‐14,  which  says,  "No  temptation  has  overtaken  you  that  is  not   common  to  man.  God  is  faithful,  and  he  will  not  let  you  be  tempted  beyond  your  ability,  but   with  the  temptation  he  will  also  provide  the  way  of  escape,  that  you  may  be  able  to  endure  it.   Therefore,  my  beloved,  flee  from  idolatry."  Just  at  that  point  of  temptation,  God  provides  a  way   out.  Sometimes  we  don't  recognize  (or  we  ignore,  I  think,  is  a  better  way)  the  Holy  Spirit.  We  say,   "No,  I  can  handle  this.  I'm  going  to  allow  myself  to  continue  around  this  cycle.  I  think  I  can  stop  it   before  it  gets  out  of  hand."     It's  kind  of  that  idea  of  having  a  pet  rather  than  killing  the  lion.  Then  we  can  have  that  desire  for   relief.  Remember  it  starts  off  with  irritable,  restless,  and  discontent.  We  can  have  that  desire  for   relief.  In  Galatians  it  tells  us  that  part  of  the  fruit  of  the  Spirit  is  peace.  Maybe  it's  before  I  even  get   out  the  door  that  I  go  hit  my  knees  and  I  settle  my  heart  before  the  Lord  before  I  go  out  and  I  start   making  a  mess  of  my  life  and  of  the  lives  of  others.       Some  games  people  play…  This  was  a  sermon  series  I  would  recommend  to  you  that  Matt  did   (Games  People  Play).  These  aren't  the  examples  he  gave,  but  one  of  the  ways  we  play  games  is  we   suppress  the  truth.  Romans  1:18  says,  "For  the  wrath  of  God  is  revealed  from  heaven  against  all   ungodliness  and  unrighteousness  of  men,  who  by  their  unrighteousness  suppress  the  truth."       We  avoid.  We  avoid  difficulty.  We  just  avoid  sorrow.  We  just  kind  of  always  try  to  live  elevated  and   pretend  like  nothing  is  wrong.  We  don't  allow  ourselves  to  get  honest  with  God  and  really  allow  our   hearts  to  be  soft  and  broken  before  him  and  to  confess  where  we  really  are.     Another  way  we  try  to  play  this  game  without  genuine  repentance  is  we  try  to  cover  it  up.  Isaiah   64:6  says,  "We  have  all  become  like  one  who  is  unclean,  and  all  our  righteous  deeds  are  like  a   polluted  garment."  Our  attempts  to  clean  ourselves  up  through  our  good  works  are  to  no  avail.  It's  

kind  of  like  this  idea  that,  "I  messed  up,  so  I'm  going  to  go  balance  this  out.  Then  I'll  approach  God   once  I  kind  of  get  clean."  That's  not  the  gospel.  That's  never  going  to  fix  the  problem.     Another  way  of  doing  this  is  by  serving  penance.  This  is  just  living  under  the  law.  This  isn't   repentance;  this  is  penance.  This  is  when  I  do  something  wrong,  I  beat  myself  up.  Once  I'm  finished   beating  myself  up,  then  all  of  a  sudden,  I'm  justified.  Now  I  can  stand  before  God  again.  That's  the   law.  That's  not  grace.  That's  not  the  gospel.  Galatians  2:21  says,  "I  do  not  nullify  the  grace  of  God,   for  if  righteousness  were  through  the  law,  then  Christ  died  for  no  purpose."  If  you  could  get   there  from  here  by  doing  that,  then  Christ  had  no  reason  to  die.       Another  way  we  often  play  is  we  hide  through  labels,  through  psychological  labels.  We  explain  our   behavior,  our  ungodliness,  because  we  have  some  sort  of  psychiatric  disorder.  I'm  not  saying   there's  not  a  legitimacy  to  psychiatric  disorders,  but  what  that  can  do  sometimes  is  we  blame  that   and  therefore,  "I'm  not  responsible."  If  we're  not  responsible  for  our  sin,  then  we'll  never  repent.  "I   am  the  way  I  am  because  I  have  this  disorder.  So  I'll  never  grow  spiritually."  We'll  look  at  some  of   that  in  a  couple  of  weeks.     Now  I  want  to  talk  to  you  just  in  summary  to  how  we  got  to  where  we  are  right  now.  I  want  to  talk   to  you  quickly  about  something  called  the  fear  of  the  Lord.  Scripturally,  "The  fear  of  the  Lord  is  the   beginning  of  knowledge."  That's  what  Proverbs  tells  us.  It's  good  to  understand  what  the  fear  of   the  Lord  is.  That's  Proverbs  1:7.  It  says,  "…fools  despise  wisdom  and  instruction."  One  easy  way   for  me  to  remember  the  fear  of  the  Lord  is  being  right-­‐sized  before  God.  That  means  I  need  to   understand  who  I  am  before  God,  and  I  need  to  understand  who  he  is.  I  am  small,  and  he  is  big.       One  time  I  was  counseling  a  young  man  who  spent  a  lot  of  time  on  the  Internet.  He  was  telling  me   about  how  much  he  knew.  I  said,  "How  much  of  what  is  on  the  Internet  do  you  know?  I  mean,  you're   like  14.  You  sound  like  you  know  a  lot."  He  said,  "Well,  I  probably  know  about  60  percent."  I  was   like,  "That  is  phenomenal!  That's  unbelievable.  Let's  test  that  out.  There's  this  thing  called   WeatherBug  on  my  computer."  This  was  like,  I  don't  know,  8  or  10  years  ago.     I  said,  "I  can  get  on  there,  and  I  can  tell  you  what  the  weather  is  of  any  little  city  around.  Here  we   are  in  Flower  Mound.  I  know  you're  from  Plano,  but  in  Flower  Mound,  what's  the  temperature   outside  right  now."  He  was  like,  "It's  about  85."  I  was  like,  "No,  what's  exactly  the  temperature?   What's  the  wind  speed?  What's  the  barometric  pressure?  Do  you  know  what?  I  can  get  on  the   Internet  right  now  and  tell  you  what  those  things  are,  but  maybe  it's  because  this  isn't  your  city.  

What  is  it  in  Plano?  Okay,  you  don't  know.  What  is  it?  Maybe  it's  just  you  haven't  had  a  chance  to   study  it  yet.  What  was  it  yesterday?"     You  know,  he  says,  "I  don't  know.  I  don't  know.  I  don't  know.  I  don't  know."  "This  is  what's  on  the   Internet.  Do  you  know  what?  Gosh,  there's  a  lot  of  information  on  the  Internet,  but  do  you  know   what?  It  doesn't  compare  to  what  the  knowledge  of  God  is.  You  know  very  little.  You  are  bound  by   your  senses.  You  can't  see…"  I  mean,  we're  in  a  counseling  office.       "You  can't  see  outside  of  these  walls.  You  can't  tell  me  what's  going  on  in  the  parking  lot.  You  can't   tell  me  who  is  there.  Guess  what?  God  can.  The  Internet  can't  tell  you  that.  Not  only  can  he  tell  you   that  (what's  happened  today,  yesterday,  a  hundred  years  ago),  but  he  can  tell  you  what's  going  to  be   tomorrow,  the  next  day,  and  so  on.  From  that  standpoint,  why  would  you  ever  make  a  decision  on   your  own  if  he  knows  and  you  don't  know?"  "The  fear  of  the  Lord  is  the  beginning  of  wisdom…"     I  want  to  look  quickly  at  just  a  picture  of  this  in  Scripture.  I  want  to  look  at  Isaiah  6.  I  think  when  we   understand  the  love  of  God  against  the  fear  of  the  Lord,  you're  going  to  see  what  this  is  going  to  lead   to.  Starting  in  verse  1:  "In  the  year  that  King  Uzziah  died  I  saw  the  Lord  sitting  upon  a  throne,   high  and  lifted  up;  and  the  train  of  his  robe  filled  the  temple.  Above  him  stood  the  seraphim.   Each  had  six  wings:  with  two  he  covered  his  face,  and  with  two  he  covered  his  feet,  and  with   two  he  flew.       And  one  called  to  another  and  said:  'Holy,  holy,  holy  is  the  Lord  of  hosts;  the  whole  earth  is   full  of  his  glory!'  And  the  foundations  of  the  thresholds  shook  at  the  voice  of  him  who  called,   and  the  house  was  filled  with  smoke."  As  he  saw  the  Lord  sitting  on  his  throne,  he  says,  "Woe  is   me!  For  I  am  lost;  for  I  am  a  man  of  unclean  lips,  and  I  dwell  in  the  midst  of  a  people  of   unclean  lips;  for  my  eyes  have  seen  the  King,  the  Lord  of  hosts!"     We  just  see  this,  the  majesty  of  God.  Christ  sitting  on  the  throne.  "Then  one  of  the  seraphim  flew   to  me,  having  in  his  hand  a  burning  coal  that  he  had  taken  with  tongs  from  the  altar.  And   he  touched  my  mouth  and  said:  'Behold,  this  has  touched  your  lips;  your  guilt  is  taken  away,   and  your  sin  atoned  for.'"  See  that  grace?  See  that  love?       Then  we  see  Isaiah's  commission  from  the  Lord.  "And  I  heard  the  voice  of  the  Lord  saying,   'Whom  shall  I  send,  and  who  will  go  for  us?'  Then  I  said,  'Here  I  am!  Send  me.'"  That's  his   response.  "You  have  been  so  gracious  to  me.  I'm  all  in.  I'm  yours.  You  tell  me  what  you  want,  and  

I'm  yours."  Faith  in  God  will  lead  us  to  repentance,  will  lead  us  to  submission,  will  lead  us  to   obedience,  will  lead  us  to  gratitude,  and  will  lead  us  to  love.       The  last  thing  we'll  see  here  is  a  song  by  David  Crowder  that  I  just  love.  I  love  Bleecker.  I  also  love   David  Crowder.  Right  here  this  is  just  an  awesome  song  that  kind  of  contrasts  the  difference   between  who  I  am  and  who  he  is  and  what  he  has  done.  It's  going  to  lead  us  to  this  idea  of   submission  and  freedom  and  life.  It  says,  "I  am  full  of  earth,  and  you  are  heaven's  worth."  He  is   singing  to  God.  He  is  acknowledging  what  he  is  made  of.  He  is  saying…       You  are  heaven's  worth.   I  am  stained  with  dirt,  prone  to  depravity.   You  are  everything  that  is  bright  and  clean,   The  antonym  of  me.     You  are  divinity,   But  a  certain  sign  of  grace  is  this:   From  a  broken  earth,  flowers  come  up,   Pushing  through  the  dirt.     You  are  holy,  holy,  holy,   All  heaven  cries,  "Holy,  holy  God!"   You  are  holy,  holy,  holy.   I  want  to  be  holy  like  you  are.     You  are  everything  that  is  bright  and  clean,   And  you're  covering  me  with  your  majesty.   And  the  truest  sign  of  grace  was  this:   From  wounded  hands  redemption  fell  down,  liberating  man.     But  the  harder  I  try,  the  more  clearly  can  I  feel   The  depth  of  our  fall  and  the  weight  of  it  all.   And  so  this  might  could  be  the  most  impossible  thing   Your  grandness  in  me  making  me  clean.    

Glory,  hallelujah!   Glory,  glory,  hallelujah!     So  here  I  am,  all  of  me,  finally  everything   Wholly,  wholly,  wholly,   I  am  wholly,  wholly,  wholly,   I  am  wholly,  wholly,  wholly  yours.     There's  a  pause,  and  he  says,  "I  am  full  of  earth  and  dirt  and  you."  David  Crowder  comments  on  this   song.  He  says,  "And  so,  like  any  good  country  song,  the  punch  line  comes  at  the  end  with  such  a   simple  turn  of  phrase  that  is  the  difference  between  life  and  death,  decay  and  newness,  winter  and   springtime."     Father,  we  thank  you  for  your  Word.  We  thank  you  for  the  offer  of  life.  Lord,  we  pray  as  we  look  to   you  in  all  your  majesty,  in  all  your  glory,  we  understand  just  the  great  lengths  you  have  gone  to  love   and  pursue  us  and  to  pay  everything  it  would  cost  for  us  to  come  home.  Just  as  you  are  there   waiting  for  us  to  come  home,  we  would  not  stand  outside  of  your  kingdom,  demanding  like  an   entitled  person  and  say,  "We  want  the  benefits  without  coming  under  your  authority,"  but  tonight   we  would  see  life  comes  from  living  with  you,  and  you  are  the  treasure.       Those  of  us  who  have  been  far  off,  I  pray  you  would  lead  us  home,  and  we  would  fully  give  our  lives   all  in.  We  would  push  it  all  in  tonight,  and  we  would  follow  you  regardless  of  the  cost.  It's  in  Jesus'   name  I  pray,  amen.     © 2014 The Village Church