Small Group Bible Study: Ecclesiastes

Small  Group  Bible  Study:  Ecclesiastes     Introduction  (from  IVP  Press)   Like an apple tree in the middle of an orange grove stands the book o...
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Small  Group  Bible  Study:  Ecclesiastes     Introduction  (from  IVP  Press)   Like an apple tree in the middle of an orange grove stands the book of Ecclesiastes among the other books of the Bible. At first glance, it just does not seem to fit. What place does a book which flaunts the daring assertion "Meaningless! Meaningless! Everything is meaningless" have in Scripture that intends to reveal the saving work of God? Along with the book of Job, Ecclesiastes reminds us that God is bigger, and our life in this world more unpredictable, than we might think. The book invites us to take a realistic tour of life. The sightseeing stops will likely leave those who enjoy nice tidy answers a bit perplexed, if not downright frustrated. Our guide for this adventure is introduced by the Hebrew title qoheleth. The title, which translated into Greek is ekklesiastes, comes from a Hebrew word for assembling. It suggests a type of office-bearer. Thus we have such translations as "the Preacher" (KJV, RSV, NASB), "the Speaker" (NEB), "the Philosopher" (TEV) and the one used in the NIV, "the Teacher". The Teacher identifies himself as "son of David, king in Jerusalem" (1:1). Such an identification naturally links him with the wisest of all Israel's sages, King Solomon. Many commentators, however, believe that the Teacher was not actually Solomon but someone who wrote in the tradition and from the perspective of Solomon. (For a full discussion of Ecclesiastes' authorship, as well as other related issues, including background and date, see Michael Eaton, Ecclesiastes, Tyndale Old Testament Commentaries [Downers Grove, Ill.: InterVarsity Press, 1983], or Derek Kidner, The Wisdom of Proverbs, Job and Ecclesiastes: An Introduction to Wisdom Literature [Downers Grove, Ill.: InterVarsity Press, 1985]. Two other helpful commentaries on Ecclesiastes are Charles Swindoll, Living on the Ragged Edge Bible Study Guide [Fullerton, Calif.: Insight for Living, 1986], and Derek Kidner, The Message of Ecclesiastes [Downers Grove, Ill.: InterVarsity Press, 1976].) The depth of insight found in the book would certainly argue for an author endowed with the kind of wisdom God granted to Solomon (see 1Ki 3:5-12). If the Teacher was not actually King Solomon, he surely qualified as a star disciple of this master sage. As a wise man, the Teacher represented a group whose influence and prestige grew to virtual equality with Israel's prophets and priests. Israel's wise men closely observed the interworkings of nature and human experience. From this storehouse of wisdom they made general pronouncements concerning life's most perplexing issues and counseled people who faced difficult decisions. The three most notable works of Israel's wise men include Ecclesiastes, Job and Proverbs. Their mark on Old Testament literature may also be seen in the Song of Solomon, Lamentations and a number of the psalms (such as 1, 37, 49, 73, 127, 133). This body of writing, called wisdom literature, has a strong influence on portions of the New Testament. Jesus frequently quotes proverbs and uses wise sayings. Paul often talks about the wisdom of God (see 1 Co 1:18—2:16 as an example). And the book of James provides counsel in a style similar to Old Testament wisdom literature. The Teacher's message seems particularly aimed at the secularists—those who seek to find life's meaning outside of a practical faith in God. With despairing perception, the author explores a grim reality he calls "life under the sun"—life outside of God's control and goodness. He addresses some of life's most sensitive questions: Where can we find satisfaction? Who is really in control? What does it take to be content? How do we live wisely? Much of the time God is left out of the discussion. But when he is introduced, everything changes. "Life under the sun" becomes "life from the hand of God." Chasing after meaning is transformed into the pursuit of God. This exploration of life's meaninglessness outside of knowing God thus becomes an invitation to know him. In its own unique way, Ecclesiastes is

ultimately an introduction to the One who "came that we might have life abundantly"—Jesus Christ himself. It highlights the dilemma voiced by Peter but faced by all of us: "Lord, to whom shall we go? You have the words of eternal life" (Jn 6:68).             Week  1  Opening  Thought:    Are  you  a  pessimist  or  optimist?       Ecclesiastes  can  be  a  difficult  book  to  read  for  some  people  because  it  feels  like  it  is  such  a   “downer”.    The  teacher  begins  by  talking  about  the  meaningless  nature  of  the  things  in  life.     The  reality  is  that  after  sin  came  into  this  world  everyone  becomes  frustrated  by  the  lack  of   fulfillment  they  find  in  materialistic  things.    The  “gap”  or  empty  feeling  is  a  direct  result  of   trying  to  find  joy/happiness  in  something  else  besides  God.    In  the  end  it  is  God  who  fulfills   and  the  things  of  this  earth  are  just  tomorrow’s  garage  sale  items.    It  doesn’t  mean  we  can’t   enjoy  the  “stuff”  God  provides  for  us.    By  all  means  enjoy,  but  it  has  to  be  threw  a  Godly  lens   knowing  that  the  happiness  we  feel  is  just  temporary  and  will  not  complete  us.    God   completes  us.         Read  Ecclesiastes  1:1-­11     Questions:   1-­‐ In  all  probability  who  is  the  Author  of  this  book?       a. Read  1  Kings  2:1-­‐4  –  What  final  charge  did  David  give  Solomon?   b. What  did  God  promise  Solomon  and  why  should  we  pay  attention  to  what  he   wrote?  (Read  1  Kings  3:1-­‐14,  4:29-­‐34)   c. Read  1  Kings  11:1-­‐6  –  How  did  Solomon  do?    Why  he  fail  so  badly  and  why  is   this  a  warning  to  us?     2-­‐ In  verse  2  the  phrase  meaningless  is  used  38  times  in  this  book  (could  also  be   translated  vapor  or  utterly  absurd).    What  does  he  say  is  meaningless  or  absurd?   a. How  does  this  phrase  make  you  feel?    Is  it  true?     3-­‐ How  would  you  answer  the  question  in  verse  3?     a. Does  this  mean  you  can  be  lazy?    Why  or  why  not?       i. What  good  comes  from  our  “toil?”   ii. What  does  Jesus  say  about  it  in  Mark  8:35,36?   b. If  you  were  on  your  deathbed  what  do  you  think  you  would  say?    What   would  you  want  to  tell  other  people  and  why?     4-­‐ What  is  he  saying  in  verse  4-­‐6?   a. Does  history  really  repeat  itself?         5-­‐ In  verse  8  the  teacher  references  the  fact  that  we  are  never  satisfied  with  what  we   see  or  hear.    Is  this  true  of  you?       a. Why  do  you  think  this  is  at  work  in  all  of  us?   b. How  does  culture  say  you  take  care  of  it?    What  do  you  think  the  Bible  says?    

6-­‐ In  verses  9,10  what  is  he  trying  to  say  about  new  “stuff?”     7-­‐ In  verse  11,  what  is  he  trying  to  get  across  here?   a. So  in  the  scheme  of  things  we  really  aren’t  that  important?  (how  many  of  us   think  about  our  great  great  grandparents?)    Why  is  this  important  to   acknowledge?   i. Is  this  depressing  or  is  there  a  larger  more  comforting,  purposeful   thought  here?     Prayer  Focus:    Clarity  about  the  purpose  of  life,  getting  rid  of  foolish  things           Week  2  Opening  Thought:  Where  do  you  gain  your  perspective  on  life  from?    Why  is  it   important  to  understand  the  limitations  of  that?     We  all  think  we  know  a  lot.    And  some  times  that  can  be  true  but  most  of  the  time  we  speak   out  of  a  very  limited  world  view.    Our  perspective  is  built  up  on  a  lot  of  things  in  life  and  we   express  our  thoughts  and  live  in  a  certain  way  because  of  it.    But  the  Teacher  here  wants  to   push  us  on  expanding  our  horizons  a  little  bit  and  not  have  tunnel  vision.         Read  Ecclesiastes  1:11-­2:11     Questions:   1-­‐ What  is  the  Teacher  setting  out  to  do  &  what  has  he  personally  achieved?   a. What  does  he  find  out  in  the  end?     2-­‐ Why  do  you  think  he  describes  this  task  as  a  “heavy  burden?”     3-­‐ Picture  yourself  chasing  after  the  wind  as  the  Teacher  says  in  verse  14.    Why  is  this   ridiculous?   a. How  can  you  apply  this  practically  to  your  life?     4-­‐ In  verse  15  he  says  what  is  crooked  cannot  be  straightened.    Is  this  true?    Look   around  at  what  is  happening  in  this  world.    How  are  we  doing  with  our  own  human   effort?   a. Why  is  it  always  important  to  bring  things  back  to  a  conversation  about   God?     5-­‐ He  says  in  verses  16-­‐18  that  he  gained  much  more  wisdom.    Why  can  gaining   wisdom  be  a  good  thing?    Is  it  possible  it’s  a  bad  thing  too?   a. Christians  can  some  times  be  painted  as  lacking  a  strong  world  view  or   “happy  idiots”  because  we  rely  on  God.    Read  1  Corinthians  1:20-­‐31.    Why   does  Paul  say  this  happens?     6-­‐ In  verses  1-­‐11  in  chapter  2  the  Teacher  lays  out  all  of  the  ways  he  was  chasing  after   meaning  in  life.    What  are  they  and  give  a  current  example  of  each.       a. Are  all  of  these  things  bad?   b. Are  we  not  supposed  to  have  fun?  

  7-­‐ What  would  God  say  success  is?   a. Why  do  we  constantly  have  to  remind  ourselves  of  what  it  means  to  achieve   Godly  success?       Prayer  Focus:  New  perspective  on  success  and  life           Week  3  Opening  Thought:    Have  you  ever  hated  life?    What  caused  that  emotion  in  you  &   how  did  you  respond?       Life  becomes  seemingly  impossible  when  we  focus  on  the  wrong  things.    Relationships   aren’t  what  we  want,  jobs  don’t  seem  as  fun,  and  even  our  joyful  times  of  life  can  seem   fleeting.         Read-­  Ecclesiastes  2:12-­26     Questions:   1-­‐ What  is  having  an  “under  the  sun”  attitude  like?     2-­‐ What  is  the  emotional  state  of  the  Teacher  at  this  stage?    How  has  he  gotten  to  this   point?     3-­‐ What  is  his  view  of  work  at  this  point?    Have  you  ever  felt  this  way?  Why?     4-­‐ In  verse  20  he  says  something  which  is  totally  opposite  to  Paul  in  1  Corinthians   15:58.    What  is  the  difference?     5-­‐ In  verse  24  who  does  he  finally  mention?   a. Why  does  he  mention  him  now?     6-­‐ In  verse  25  he  lays  out  the  way  to  find  enjoyment.    Is  this  true?    Why?   a. If  it  is  true,  then  in  what  ways  do  you  chase  after  the  opposite?   b. Is  there  a  difference  between  happiness  and  joy?   c. Have  you  ever  felt  satisfied  with  God?    How  did  you  get  to  that  point  or  how   could  you  get  to  that  point?   i. Read  Romans  1.    What  does  Paul  say  we  exchange?     7-­‐ What  are  some  characteristics  of  a  life  that  is  lived  in  Godly  fulfillment?         8-­‐ How  does  the  Teacher  differentiate  between  a  person  who  is  following  after  God   and  one  who  isn’t?  (verse  25,26)     Prayer  Focus:  Attitudes  towards  the  things  of  this  world      

Week  4  Opening  Thought:      What  season  of  life  are  you  in  right  now?    How  did  you  get  to   this  point?     Most  if  not  all  of  us  have  control  issues.    For  some  it  is  way  more  evident  than  others  but  in   the  end  we  all  like  to  have  control.    We  like  to  know  what  is  going  to  happen  and  take  the   necessary  steps  to  either  get  there  or  avoid  it.    Here  in  chapter  3  the  question  that  needs  to   be  answered  is  “Who  is  really  in  control?”     Read  Ecclesiastes  3     Questions:   1-­‐ Is  living  a  life  following  after  God  some  times  difficult?    Why?   a. How  do  you  explain  this  to  someone  who  is  a  non  believer?     2-­‐ Have  you  ever  felt  controlled  by  your  season  of  life?    How  do  you  stop  this  from   happening?     3-­‐ In  verse  11  the  word  for  beautiful  is  the  same  word  used  to  describe  Abraham’s  wife   Sarah  in  Genesis  12.    Why  do  you  think  it’s  important  to  see  things  through  that   lens?   a. How  doe  we  encourage  others  to  view  life  that  way  without  coming  off  as   holier  than  thou  or  a  snob?     4-­‐ What  does  the  teacher  say  is  set  within  in  us  in  verse  11?    Why  is  this  important?   a. Does  the  thought  of  eternity  freak  you  out  at  all?   b. Having  eternity  set  in  our  hearts  is  what  makes  us  feel  that  death  just  isn’t   right.    That  this  world  does  not  fulfill  and  that  there  is  no  way  that  we  could   ever  fully  understand  God.    Why  should  this  increase  our  faith?     5-­‐ Something  being  a  gift  from  God  is  the  same  as  experiencing  God’s  grace.    In  what   ways  have  you  experienced  God’s  grace?     6-­‐ In  verse  14  we  see  3  things  that  are  in  God’s  will.      What  are  they?    (Fear  is  not   terror,  so  what  is  it?)     7-­‐ What  does  v16  say  about  society?    How  is  this  true  today  and  what  should  you  be   doing  about  it?   a. Does  evil  end  up  preparing  the  way  for  something  else  some  times?    Read   Peter’s  sermon  in  Acts  2:17-­‐35   b. What  do  you  do  with  the  tension  between  knowing  God  is  in  control  but  yet   evil  seems  to  be  in  so  many  ways  right  now?     8-­‐ In  the  future  God  will  bring  judgment  (v17)  but  in  the  present  we  are  being  tested.     What  is  the  result  He  is  looking  for?     Prayer  Focus:  Control  issues,  Trust  in  God          

Week  5  Opening  Thought:  Ever  been  accused  of  either  being  lazy  or  a  “workaholic?”           As  the  Teacher  looks  around  he  sees  oppression  everywhere  and  it  forces  him  to  view  life  a   certain  way,  which  is  negatively.    He  also  sees  how  people  fight  and  compete  with  work  and   what  lack  of  community  does  for  people.         Read  Ecclesiastes  4     Questions:   1-­‐ What  does  the  Teacher  say  is  the  best  option  to  deal  with  the  oppression  in  this   society?   a. Why  is  he  taking  this  view?   b. Do  you  have  people  in  your  life  that  talk  about  the  world  in  this  way?   c. How  do  you  deal  with  people  who  say  they  can’t  believe  in  God  because  of  all   the  oppression  that  is  in  the  world?     2-­‐ In  verses  4-­‐6  he  talks  about  the  main  motivation  between  people  working  in  rivalry   and  envy.    Is  this  true?    What  happens  when  this  is  the  case?   a. Why  is  envy  such  a  bad  thing?    Are  there  things  in  your  life  that  you  usually   get  envious  about?   b. What  does  the  teacher  say  is  the  best  way  to  work?     3-­‐ In  verses  7-­‐12  what  is  the  Teacher  talking  about?     a. Why  is  community  so  important?    Can  you  live  without  it?    Why  or  Why  not?   b. How  have  you  experienced  great  community?    What  makes  the  biggest   difference  between  a  good  or  bad  community  and  how  do  you  live  that  our   in  our  own  community  here?   c. How  do  these  verses  speak  to  marriage  as  well?    How  should  this  part  of  the   passage  shape  who  you  are  looking  for  as  a  husband  or  wife?     4-­‐ What  is  the  irony  in  the  rags  to  riches  story  in  verses  13-­‐16?     5-­‐ Verse  16  ends  with  a  warning  against  being  overconfident  and  forgetting  to  be  a  life   long  learner.    What  are  some  ways  that  you  can  be  a  life  long  learner?           Prayer  focus:  humility,  right  motivation,  building  of  community                          

Week  6  Opening  Thought-­    What  does  it  mean  to  have  a  relationship  with  God?     At  the  beginning  of  chapter  5  the  Teacher  begins  to  talk  about  how  we  can  approach  God   and  why  that  is  important.    He  finishes  by  giving  a  warning  about  accumulating  stuff  and   being  careful  as  to  where  we  think  we  will  find  our  joy.     Read  Ecclesiastes  5     Questions:   1-­‐ How  does  the  Teacher  say  we  should  approach  God?   a. Do  you  see  this  in  your  own  life?   b. Do  you  approach  the  “House  of  God”  with  reverence?       c. Why  is  it  important  to  approach  God  correctly?     2-­‐ Why  is  it  important  to  be  a  good  listener  and  how  do  we  become  better  at  it?     3-­‐ What  happens  if  we  don’t  approach  God  with  gratitude  and  honor?     4-­‐ In  verses  2-­‐3  what  does  the  teacher  say  is  critical  in  approaching  God?   a. What  are  careless  words  a  sign  of?     5-­‐ What  does  the  Teacher  say  about  vows?   a. Also  read  Matthew  5:33-­‐36…how  do  these  two  passages  go  together?   b. Why  is  it  important  to  be  a  person  of  your  word  (having  integrity)?     6-­‐ What  does  he  say  about  wealth  in  v10-­‐12?    Is  this  true?    (Also  read  1  Timothy  6:9.   17-­‐19).     7-­‐ Establishing  a  life  of  generosity  is  key  to  how  we  handle  money.    Do  you  have  good   generous  habits  established?    What  are  they?    If  not,  why  is  it  important  to  start   now?     8-­‐ What  role  does  God  play  in  our  finances/possessions?     9-­‐ When  we  get  this  concept  of  gladness  in  our  hearts  (v20)  being  able  to  do  all  things   through  Christ  becomes  possible.    Read  Philippians  4:10-­‐13  &  discuss  what  it  means   to  you.           Prayer  Focus:  Integrity,  how  we  approach  God                      

Week  7  Opening  Thought  –  What  do  you  enjoy  most  in  life  and  why?     This  short  chapter  6  continues  the  focus  on  making  sure  we  are  able  to  enjoy  what  we  have   and  find  our  satisfaction  in  God.    Having  the  right  focus  enables  us  to  have  a  better  outlook   on  life  altogether.         Read  Ecclesiastes  6     Questions:   1-­‐ How  does  God  grant  us  wealth  and  enjoyment?   a. Why  is  it  important  to  remember  that  100%  of  our  money  comes  from  God?     2-­‐ Who  does  the  teacher  say  enjoys  the  wealth  of  some  people?    How  does  this   happen?     3-­‐ A  big  family  was  considered  a  huge  blessing  by  God  in  the  Old  Testament.    What  is   considered  the  “good  life”  now?   a. How  is  it  possible  that  someone  with  such  a  big  family  would  not  receive  a   proper  burial?  (v3)   b. What  does  this  say  about  the  family  and  priorities?   c. Do  you  see  this  anywhere  in  your  own  life?     4-­‐ In  verses  4-­‐6  he  compares  the  man  to  what?    What  is  the  significance  of  this  and   how  did  he  get  to  that  point?     5-­‐ The  teacher  lays  out  several  questions  in  verses  7-­‐12.    What  are  they  and  how  would   you  answer  them?   a. If  someone  is  a  non  believer  would  they  answer  them  differently?    Why?     6-­‐ In  verse  10  he  says  that  something  is  given  a  name.    Why  is  it  significant  to  get  a   name?   a. Read  Luke  12:7.    How  does  this  make  you  feel?       b. If  God  knows  us  that  well,  what  does  that  mean  for  our  lives?       Prayer  Focus  –  Understanding  our  purpose,  taking  comfort  in  how  God  knows  us                              

Week  8  Opening  Thought-­  We  all  have  regrets.    What  are  some  of  yours?     Some  times  the  death  of  someone  we  know  can  lead  us  to  really  face  some  of  the  issues  in   our  own  lives.    Wisdom  comes  from  a  lot  of  different  ways.    Experiences,  failures,  successes,   mentors,  and  personal  study  are  just  some  of  the  different  avenues  to  gaining  wisdom.    But   the  most  important  way  is  through  obedience  to  God  and  following  what  it  says  in  scripture.         Read  Ecclesiastes  7     Questions:   1-­‐ What  does  the  teacher  say  is  better  than  perfume?   a. Why  is  it  important  and  how  do  you  get  a  good  one?     2-­‐ What  are  some  of  the  ways  that  the  Teacher  describes  wisdom?   a. Are  any  of  them  surprising?     3-­‐ Read  Psalm  90:12.    How  does  this  fit  in  with  verse  2?    Is  it  true?     4-­‐ The  teacher  isn’t  saying  to  be  down  on  life  or  be  mopey  so  what  is  he  trying  to  get   across?     5-­‐ What  is  he  talking  about  in  verse  4?     6-­‐ In  verse  6  the  crackle  of  thorns  refers  to  something  that  just  goes  away  quickly.    Do   you  agree  with  him  here?       a. What  are  you  some  ways  that  you  see  this  in  your  own  life  or  in  others?     7-­‐ What  are  the  warnings  he  gives  in  verses  7-­‐10?     a. Read  James  1:2-­‐4  and  Proverbs  16:21,  19:11.    What  do  we  learn  about   patience?     8-­‐ Is  there  such  a  thing  as  righteous  anger?   a. What  does  non  righteous  anger  lead  to?       b. What  makes  you  angry  and  why?     9-­‐ In  verse  10  he  says  to  not  glorify  the  “good  ole  days?”    Why?     10-­‐ Why  is  verse  14  so  important?    How  do  you  see  this  at  work  in  your  own  life?     11-­‐ What  warnings  does  he  give  in  16-­‐18?     12-­‐ Why  is  verse  20  critical  to  our  understanding  of  God’s  grace?       Prayer  Focus:  Patience,  controlling  anger            

Week  9  Opening  Thought:  Detail  a  time  when  you  have  been  in  trouble  with  authority  in   some  way.      (Police,  At  school,  parents)     Some  times  obeying  authority  can  be  incredibly  difficult.    We  don’t  like  what  they  stand  for   or  some  of  the  decisions  that  are  made  so  we  want  to  take  things  into  our  own  hands.    Of   course  this  is  where  problems  can  arise  very  quickly.    But  disobeying  authority  isn’t  just  on   a  larger  scale.    It  can  be  in  smaller  ways  such  as  speeding,  parking  where  you  shouldn’t,   sharing  information  for  a  test  etc…     Read  Ecclesiastes  8     Questions:   1-­‐ Why  is  the  Teacher  encouraging  the  listeners  to  obey  authority?   a. Do  we  just  obey  no  matter  what?    Is  there  a  time  that  a  believer  should  not   obey  authority?   b. Why  is  nationalism  (pride  in  ones  country)  both  good  and  bad?    Do  you  see   ways  that  it  is  bad  in  America?     c. Also  read  Romans  12:9-­‐21,  13:1-­‐5.    After  reading  this  does  it  change  your   opinion  on  anything  when  it  comes  to  how  we  view  authority?     2-­‐ What  steps  does  the  Teacher  give  to  show  the  proper  way  to  handle  a  “bad  boss?”     3-­‐ Why  do  we  always  have  to  remind  ourselves  of  the  big  picture  when  it  comes  to   organizations?  (job  or  church  for  example).     4-­‐ One  of  the  worst  things  we  can  do  when  being  part  of  a  team  of  people  is  to   constantly  make  decisions  based  on  our  own  personal  preferences.    Why  can  that  be   bad  for  the  team?     5-­‐ Why  is  loyalty  important?       a. Has  anyone  ever  been  disloyal  to  you?    How  did  that  make  you  feel?     6-­‐ Why  are  verses  7,8  important?     7-­‐ What  is  the  Teacher  mad  about  in  verses  9-­‐14?     8-­‐ Life  stinks  some  times.    That’s  just  reality.    How  does  the  teacher  want  us  to  respond   in  verse  15?    Does  this  make  sense  to  you?       Prayer  Focus:  Obedience,  loyalty,  perseverance                    

Week  10  Opening  Thought:  Do  you  have  any  fears  or  anxiety  about  death?     Typically  one  of  the  greatest  fears  we  can  have  revolves  around  dying.    But  the  reality  is  that   if  we  have  a  good  perspective  on  both  life  and  death,  wisdom  will  come  flowing  through  us   because  the  right  things  will  really  matter.    It  seems  as  if  the  Teacher  in  this  chapter  is  all   about  despair  but  he’s  trying  to  send  a  bigger  message.         Read  Ecclesiastes  9:1-­12     Questions:   1-­‐ How  are  the  righteous  and  wicked  described?     2-­‐ In  verse  2,  why  does  he  say  it’s  the  “same  for  all?”     3-­‐ What  do  the  “living”  have  and  who  are  the  “living?”   a. How  would  your  life  change  if  you  knew  you  only  had  a  few  more  months  to   live?     4-­‐ What  are  the  differences  between  the  living  and  the  dead?   a. How  do  you  describe  the  hope  that  you  have?   b. Why  does  hope  &  handling  life’s  circumstances  well  really  attractive  to  those   who  don’t  believe  in  Jesus?   c. How  does  the  death  and  resurrection  of  Jesus  bring  hope  in  the  future  and   the  present?     5-­‐ What  command  does  he  give  us  in  vs  7-­‐9?   a. How  do  we  do  that  and  why  is  it  important?   b. Vs  9  can  be  applied  to  marriage  as  well.    Why  should  this  deeply  affect  how   we  date  and  our  view  of  marriage?    What  core  things  have  got  to  be  there  in   whomever  you  are  with?       Prayer  Focus:  Enjoyment  of  life,  reminder  of  the  hope  we  have                                    

Week  11  Opening  Thought:  Who  do  you  look  to  when  you  need  to  make  an  important   decision?    Why  do  you  go  to  them?       Time  and  chance  are  things  that  we  cannot  control  in  life  but  we  can  control  our  common   sense.    The  decisions  we  make  and  situations  we  get  into  are  shaped  by  the  way  that  we   think.    If  our  faith  and  trust  in  God  continues  to  grow  then  our  decisions  will  be  better  as   well.         Read  Ecclesiastes  9:13-­10:20     Questions:   1-­‐ What  irony  do  you  see  in  verses  13-­‐16?         2-­‐ Is  our  faith  and  trust  in  God  static?    Why  is  it  important  that  they  continue  to   mature?   a. What  would  change  in  your  life  if  you  fully  trusted  God?     3-­‐ What  are  some  ways  that  the  wise  man  and  foolish  man  are  described?   a. Also  read  Philippians  4:8.    List  out  what  wisdom  looks  like  and  give  an   example  of  each.     4-­‐ Can  you  name  someone  who  had  poise?    How  do  you  think  they  got  it?    What  is   different  about  them  then  other  people?     5-­‐ What  areas  of  your  life  need  some  help  with  wise  judgment?     6-­‐ In  verses  12-­‐14  he  talks  about  our  words  again.    Also  read  James  3:1-­‐12.    Why  are   our  words  so  important?       Prayer  Focus:    What  comes  out  of  our  mouths,  wisdom                                      

Week  12  Opening  Thought:  When  was  the  last  time  you  did  something  risky?     In  the  final  two  chapters  of  Ecclesiastes  the  Teachers  tone  begins  to  change  and  he  begins  to   challenge  the  listener  to  live  a  life  that  is  risky.    We  need  to  live  lives  that  our  wise  but   aggressive.    God  has  given  us  incredible  strength  and  opportunity  and  when  we  focus  on   Him  the  possibilities  are  endless.         Read  Ecclesiastes  11  &  12     Questions:   1-­‐ What  is  the  Teacher  telling  us  to  do  in  verses  11:1-­‐6?   a. Why  is  it  important  to  be  so  aggressive  and  not  wait?   b. How  should  a  believer’s  life  be  “risky?”     2-­‐ In  11:7-­‐10  what  kind  of  life  does  the  Teacher  want  us  to  lead?  (Also  read  2   Corinthians  9:6-­‐11)     3-­‐ What  warning  does  he  give  in  vs  9?   a. How  does  this  warning  affect  our  thinking?     4-­‐ What  are  some  differences  between  someone  who  is  young  vs  someone  who  is  old?   (see  it  in  12:1-­‐6)   a. How  do  you  embrace  getting  older  without  losing  some  of  the  good  things   about  being  young?     5-­‐ Who  are  we  supposed  to  remember?    Why?     6-­‐ What  does  it  mean  to  “Fear  God  and  keep  his  commandments?”     7-­‐ Why  do  you  think  the  Teacher  ends  this  book  the  way  that  he  does?     8-­‐ Summarize  the  book  of  Ecclesiastes.       a. What  needs  to  change  in  your  life  to  make  sure  you  are  moving  towards  a   truly  fulfilled  life?     Prayer  Focus:  what  it  means  to  focus  on  our  Creator,  Risky  life