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What we want to get & give

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Holiday awareness Getting into that spirit beyond the shopping By Paul Smart

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’ve entered those years when I’m no longer sure what gifts I want. Instead, I group the large expenses that come up in our home. I start around Halloween. This year’s list has included dental work, a new gasket for our dishwasher, a complete re-do of the half-bath our son used for his toilet training, and a last batch of tick and flea protection for our pets (a nod to the changing climate, the president-elect’s beliefs notwithstanding). Fortunately, my wife and parents are in the same boat. So are my siblings and most of our friends. We’re all on the less exuberant side of gift-getting. Our gift-giving extends little beyond our kids. We’re not blessed with doormen, parking valets or staff to please as we juggle incomes over the more expensive months of winter. It’s enough for us to have kids writing about what they want to get and give. It’s different at our juncture in life from when we were younger parents, or a childless couple needing daily and weekly reminders of how much we love each other. Given the times, a lot of us need to hear reassuring words about what we get and what we give communally, or via shared government. There are other ways to raise awareness, including of the season’s spiritual side. As seasoned parents, my wife and I at this time of year have to make certain our soon-to-be-eleven-yearold remembers to get, or make, special things for his grandparents. We try to remember those still single among our friends and family. We still carry around older memories about the importance gifts can have when one’s not living quite as one wishes. A larger question persists: What is it with all this obsession with gifts this time of year, even in parts of the world where the days are long instead of short, or as warm as any other season? Very old traditions reaching back to the Roman Saturnalia and Northern European Yule, with variations in most other cultures, center on a breaking of the gloom of the year’s darkest days through revelry, often quite drunken, and foolishness. Small gifts are given as tokens of friendship and understanding that the gloom some feel is shared, or at least shareable. Once the church elders decided to move the birth celebration for their Christ back a few months from spring, all got consumed under the Christian yoke. That wintry impulse grew, despite some pushback from Puritans and other fundamentalist sorts, until you started seeing folks like Teddy Roosevelt joining new entities like SPUG, the Society for the Prevention of Useless Giving, in the early 1900s. From that unpromising genesis emerged a century of steady Christmas creep. Now the seasonal publications come out as early as mid-October. There are increasing stories about the 20 percent of presents never opened or worn.

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ut enough of the darker side of the season. There’s still something grand, as the days grow cold and dark and the stores start beckoning with endless twinkling lights, about making lists of what one wants to give, if not receive. It’s one thing when you’re trying to please babies and infants up to about the age of eight. Ever seen a kid with his first baby piano, her first stuffed pony, or whatever contraption’s out that year that’s going to race around the floor like some crazed furry robot pet? But what about those singles in one’s life? Is it best to hand over books, movies, bingeable TV series or music to while away the hours? Or is it better to hand out tickets to social events, clothes, or simple invitations to come more often to one’s home? Or just to make a call? It’s hard to remember what we wanted back when. Probably the calls and invites were best. What should one get one’s partner or parents? I’ve tried, and written about, re-gifting. I recall how an electronic corkscrew made its way around our family until it came back to my mom. Oops. Same with a card

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Is there anything that gets at the underlying beauty holidays this time of year better than the lighting of a menorah during Hannukah’s eight days? elsewhere in this gift guide). We’ll set money aside for the dishwasher and whatever car repairs Frosty the Snowman’s preparing for us over the coming months. Thanks to the complexities of government, our dental bills will still be covered for the coming year through Obamacare, it seems. We’re also eyeing books we can share, new slippers, socks and other things that have been traditional gifts between us each year, which we’ve grown to expect. For our parents, we’ll arrange visits and special meals, along with the cards and pottery son Milo says he’s making. For siblings and friends we’ll do a complex Facebook/Youtube image filing. And more visits. Finally, for everyone we suggest a quick look at www.globalorgasm.org, the website for an Annual Global Orgasm for World Peace day, which celebrates its tenth year on the winter solstice on December 21, with support from the Noosphere Project at Princeton University and The Center for Subtle Activism.

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Okay, so there are girls here. Ick? Not if a boy wants to find a gift to impress someone they feel might be more than a friend. Such is the power of presents. like looking for each day and then seeing what’s inside. For me, now, I want chocolate, but when I was younger and a kid I really wanted Legos. H: There was one I saw online where every day you get a different pack of magic cards, but it cost so much that my parents told me if that’s what I really wanted it would be my only present. M: Do you think there were repeats of the same packs in there or all different ones? H: I think they were individual packs! When does your family get their Christmas Tree? M: We put the tree up about two weeks before Christmas and usually invite some people over when we put the ornaments on. H: We don’t have very good ornaments. There’s stuff me and my brother made in school, some same old stuff. There’s one really cool one, though, from Christmas 2005, when I was supposed to be born. It has a little beagle on it. Usually we get the tree depending on when someone remembers we should have gotten it. It’s sort of like I didn’t realize it was Thanksgiving this week until last week. M: We always put the tree over there (points). I help put the ornaments on and I like doing the angel and the star up on top. I also like some of the old ornaments I made when I was little. H: My grandparents have thousands of ornaments, and they’ve started to give each of their

four grandkids one each Christmas. Do you like looking at Christmas trees and lights elsewhere? M: I don’t remember anything. H: I saw this tree stuck into a waterfall with all its lights on in Kingston once. That was really cool. Do you like holiday parties at school? H: Not really. M: They’re bad. You just get crappy presents like plants and stuff. H: It’s usually store-bought cookies and stuff and all these kids running around on sugar rushes. M: That sounds like Halloween... H: Every holiday is about crappy candy. M: What about St. Patrick’s Day, or Veteran’s Day? And you’re saying you don’t like crappy candy? What do you want for presents this year? H: I want a Leopard Gecko, a second Bearded Dragon, a Ball Python, guinea pigs and a dog. I don’t think I’ll get all of that. But you have to ask, right? M: Well, I want a PS4. I’m not going to get it but I want it because they last longer than the PS3. There’s more games. H: But every year they come out with a new one so you buy new games for $40 a pop.

December 8, 2016 Holiday Gift Guide M: Someday I’ll ask for a PS7. And I repeat ... they last longer! For people who like to think a lot about stuff, and have lots of questions, there’s also the Amazon Echo. H: Why not just use Siri? M: Because you can’t ask Siri as many questions. It take too long. H: Maybe you cursed at Siri too much? But you know I kind of want a Google Home. It’s like Amazon Echo only it’s on Google and professionals use it. It works on a computer. I’m saving up for a computer. M: I want another dog, maybe some magic cards, and definitely a few packs of Heroclix even though not many people are playing Heroclix. H: I’m definitely going to get a lot of books. M: I’ll get lots of clothes. I guess that’s okay because I need some winter stuff. H: I want the game Dominion. M: We can give you ours. H: Have you heard about Ascensions? There’s also a new Star Wars Monopoly. M: I heard Ascensions was good, and Star Wars is always cool. H: I want to get a sub-woofer for my room. It makes the big deep notes deeper. M: I don’t really need any music. All I need is my iPhone, and I can go on YouTube and get everything I want for free. That works fine. COURTESY OF KIRWAN’S GAME STORE H: I want a gift card for a glass store be- Magic cards are best given in the form of a gift card, cause I want to start making custom fish unless one’s ready to purchase whatever a top store like tanks for money. Kirwan’s, in Catskill, is listing as the next big set. M: I’d like a gift card for Kirwan’s Game Store. H: Me too. What are you thinking of getting for your parents and other family members? M: I have ideas of things I want for my mom and my dad. I guess I could get things for my grandparents and cousins too, but I’m not sure what they’d like. H: I always get presents for my parents and my grandparents. I’ll probably just give my brother Charlie some of my old magic cards since he’s starting to play and isn’t very good at it. M: I have a few ideas on how to make some things. I don’t know. What would you get for a girl your age? M: I guess it depends on whether it was my girlfriend or just a friend. H: I think it depends on what they’re like. If WWW.BAREFURNITURENY.COM they like animals I’d get them something like a lizard. If they liked SciFi I’d get them Star Wars Monopoly. I’ve known girls who hate unicorns and love blood! M: I think it depends on what race they are, or where they live and what kind of money their family has. H: Why would that matter? M: If they’re white they don’t have as much to worry about. H: Isn’t that racist? M: It’s about being sensitive to what they might like. What are you planning for your birthdays, which are less than two weeks after Christmas? H: I’m probably going to invite two or three

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people over for a sleepover, then have another party with family friends. My friend Daniel has a birthday on the twelfth, so we usually have a party together, too, and go out in the woods and do stuff. M: For my birthday I think it’s kind of fun to hang out with people from my school. In regular school all you do is work, so it’s nice to just hang out with friends and play dodgeball, have a sleepover, watch some funny TV shows, and stay up too late. I’m also going to a New York Knicks basketball game with my parents, but my dad keeps complaining about how expensive the tickets were. Would you ever consider having a joint birthday party? H and M (in tandem, loudly): Nooooo! H: That’s not a good idea. M: No. Definitely not! Do you like cake? H: I like pie. M: I have ice-cream cake. Do you like holiday and birthday cards? H: I like them. M: They show emotions. I just like them. H: They give you that last little bit of feel-good after you open the gift. Finally, what other holidays do you find important? H: April Fool’s Day! I’m not good at pranking people, but it’s cool to see what other people do. M: I kind of like Valentine’s Day. You learn if someone likes you as a friend or more. There are a few people in my class I really kind of like, and then there are people who try to burn me. On Valentine’s Day you have to say something more about everyone and let your true feelings out.

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Wireless Headphones — Bose Soundlink II ($229.99), Plantronics BackBeat Sense ($179.99) Just about everything is going wireless, and headphones are part of this trend. Utilizing Bluetooth technology, wireless headphones sync with a smart phone or other device to give the user an enhanced listening experience. Both of the models on this list are around-the-ear headphones and offer comfortable memory foam cups that hug the ear. Wireless headphones are still relatively new and expensive, and the Plantronics BackBeat Sense is a good entry level headphone that offers great sound quality. For those that want better sound quality, the Bose Soundlink II is a reliable mid-level model that competes with headphones

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Contemporary Video Game Systems — Xbox One S ($299.99), Playstation 4 Pro ($339.99) Unlike earlier consoles which were exclusively for playing video games, newer systems like the Xbox One S and the Playstation 4 Pro are more versatile. Video game enthusiasts can still enjoy titles such as Call of Duty, Gears of War, Madden and Minecraft, but can also stream TV and play media. Both consoles come with a Blu-ray player and stream in 4K video. The Xbox One S is slimmer than previous models, and comes with 2TB of storage. Playstation 4 Pro, on the other hand, comes with only 1TB of storage, and offers a less

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Candy ornaments Building memories with the holidays’ help By Lisa Carroll

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hen I was a kid, my mom had a glass Christmas tree candy dish. She would fill each of the three compartments with a different chocolate candy, and then my brother and I were given almost free reign to devour the sweets. We were told to leave some for Christmas. I remember carefully unwrapping two or three Hershey Kisses from their red-and-green-foil wrappers and stuffing them into my mouth all at once. A most delectable treat. My mom looks back at our Christmases after my dad got sick with a certain sadness. Some years, there weren’t many gifts stuffed under the tree. Some years, my dad spent the holidays in his recliner chair, too sick to participate in the festivities. He urged us to go ahead without him. On our family Christmas tree, my mom displayed our ornaments proudly. The reindeer out of popsi-

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hectic nature of the holidays will put me on edge. I’ll get frustrated and yell at the tree, especially when putting on the garland. The long lines at the grocery store may annoy me. In my mind, I’ll want everything to be perfect, to go seamless. Then Shelby or Sammie will steal a candy cane from the tree — the third, I’m sure, that day — and run around the house with a sticky face. Or Tom and I will share a glass of wine and dance to corny Christmas music. Or someone will think baking anatomically correct gingerbread people with grandma. Then I’ll remember what’s so great about Christmas. The memories.

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What do grandparents want? Some questions are answered by the simple asking By James Beukelman

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hat do grandparents want? What gift would make a grandparent swoon in gratitude more than any other gift? It’s a challenge. Adult children who lived with their own children’s grandparents for a generation have seen their needs and interests change, decrease, and become increasingly other-centered. The question is almost an enigma for younger grandchildren for whom the best gifts are driven by media promises and mutable peer values. Because of the test of miles or the flotsam of data from myriad sources about their histories and characteristics, they may not know Nana and Poppy very well. The perfect grandparent gift may defy decoding by growing minds. The question is a mystery even for grandparents themselves. Card-carrying grandfather as I am, the question gives me pause. When age is measured in scores, needs, interests, values and perspectives move like a budding plant captured by time-lapse photography. Can I speak for grandparents in general, most of whom I do not know personally and for whom my ruminations may miss the mark completely because their wants are hard to find and slippery at best? Because I suspect there are a few commonalities in the membership of the grandparent brigade (except for the crazy grandparent, if your family’s prerequisite crazy relative is a grandparent), and because some of you have persevered through this paragraph because you need something useful about grandparent yearnings to guide your gift search, I will venture forth boldly. For the grandparent deserving of his or her age, any gift from a grandchild that ends in joy or learning for the grandchild is the perfect gift. This will obviously require the grandchild’s participation in the selection, if not the creation, of the gift. A gift for which the grandchild contributed only the signing of the card or gift tag is not what a grandparent wants. Usually the amount of time or money expended is insignificant, except where the grandchild’s own piggy bank or bank account is used.

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As we age, the vibrancy of youth becomes ever more attractive. by a grandchild’s deliberation will find space in a grandparent’s treasure trove. For the grandmother of bling, the personally fashioned or chosen bangle for her favorite charm bracelet will bring tears to her eyes and smiles to her countenance. The gift which a grandparent did not know he or she needed can be a good gift, like a coat rack for the cluttered mudroom or a new shade of lipstick. But care must be taken that these come from love’s larder and do not imply criticism. Forgiveness may be one of the best gifts the elderly can give others, but messages like, “Your house is messy,” and “Your makeup just isn’t cutting it anymore,” may strain relationships and take time to mend. A gift of time is always a sure thing to give a grandparent. Busy young families can unintentionally leave behind the inhabitants of the family tree who live at a more deliberate pace. Two copies of the same book to be read and discussed together in regular intervals would be a better grandparent grace than just the book alone. The first of a promised series of pen pal letters from a grandchild will set most any grandparent into convulsions of glee. Two tickets to a well-chosen event, a gift certificate to an appropriate restaurant or diner, accompanied by an invitation to a skip-a-generation “grand” date would almost al-

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randchildren banding together to buy grandparents a Mediterranean cruise, or grandma an airline ticket to her ancestral home half a world away, or grandpa the late ‘60s muscle car he always admired, can hit the perfect gift bull’s eye in their own way. Yet even then, as Henry Van Dyke said, “It’s not the gift, but the thought that counts.” So in some ways an hour’s conversation before a roaring fireplace in which grandparent things and grandchild things are uncritically exchanged can hit the perfect gift bull’s eye with equal, if not greater, precision. When life reaches the point where the finish line is in view, time with loved ones mining the miracle of love usually edges to fever pitch consequence. In a word, what grandparents want is grandchildren…not more grandchildren though that’s okay too, but a little larger portion of the grandchildren they already have. Give Nana and Poppy the gift in which the grandchild’s heartbeat, interests, and values pulse. The rest is just cotton candy — sweet but temporary, and not the least bit nourishing.

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‘It is more blessed to give than to receive...’ Gifts from the spirit as well as the purse By the Rev. Canon Jeff Golliher, Vicar St. John’s Episcopal Church, Ellenville

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Holiday hoopla Could it be the pageantry that gets us in the mood? By Jennifer Brizzi

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ut there’s lots left to do. For lights and other outdoor family excitement you can get to Garrison (Putnam County) for Sparkle! at neoclassical mansion Boscobel on Decemberember 9, 10, 16 & 17 from 4:30 p.m.9 p.m. Thousands of lights, candlelit paths and lots of varied entertainment (think ventriloquism and magic), music and ice sculptures and twilight tours (by reservation). www.boscobel.org The valley’s many historic mansions are always festively Decemberorated for the holidays and at Staatsburg there’s an extra draw of their Holiday “Whodunit” with interactive mysterious fun on December 11 1 p.m.-4 p.m. On December 10 you can choose between Ellenville’s Holiday Expo at Norbury Hall, 10 a.m.-3 p.m., with a movie screening, holiday crafts and entertainment, or Frozendale in Rosendale 10 .m.-6 p.m. for local food, arts and crafts, movie and puppet show, parade and lights fest and even a mac and cheese bake off! At Sugar Loaf in Orange County there is a Holiday Celebration from 11:30 a.m.-5 p.m. with horse-drawn wagon rides, strolling carolers and a visit from Santa. Another community event worth checking out is Dreidel House in Rhinebeck at the Jewish Center, 10:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. on December 11, where you can make olive oil, candles and donuts, and enjoy a Chanukah photo booth and making ceramic crafts. If the holidays for you are all about ginormous displays of lights, and subtle and beautiful community displays (hey Rhinebeck Village) are not enough for you, check out that Sparkle! thing at Boscobel or head south to White Plains in West-

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December 8, 2016 Holiday Gift Guide uous novelty classics as ‘How Much is That Doggy in the Window?’ He was what made the Fifties cute, amusing, light-hearted, unthreatening — in other words, straight. Miller. His kind had been aging off the record charts in the late 1950s, resisting the tide of Elvis, Little Richard and James Brown. My dad was part of Miller’s old-guard resistance, too. In dad’s world, Mitch Miller still had clout. He was a top executive at Columbia Records. So when Miller recorded ‘Must Be Santa’ with his ridiculously robust-sounding men’s chorus, my dad was over the rainbow. Mitch Miller had his own TV show, “Sing Along With Mitch.” Columbia would promote it. The holiday exposure would be huge. And so it was that 50 years before Dylan’s “Christmas in the Heart” album, Mitch Miller’s version of ‘Must Be Santa’ came out. That was 1960. Now comes the twist. Two years later, when the legendary John Hammond signed Bob Dylan to Columbia, there was a Columbia exec who derid-

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ing saucer, or some other fanciful vehicle. Even in freezing weather, the town green is packed with spectators, waiting, waiting, and then exclaiming in unison as the latest means of arrival is revealed. Santa makes his way to a big chair in the middle of the green and hands out to the children stockings of goodies filled by the many volunteers who make the town celebrations possible.

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istory is remembered in Rhinebeck, which has revived the tradition honoring Sinterklaas, the patron of children and sailors, brought to the town by Dutch settlers over 300 years ago. The old custom was for a town resident to impersonate Sinterklaas, dressed in a bishop’s tall hat, red cape, shiny ring, and jeweled staff. Mounted on a white steed, he rode through town knocking on doors late at night, delivering bags of treats to good children. Naughty children were threatened with kidnaping by his companion, the Grumpus, a wild-looking half-man, halfbeast. In the updated version of the festival, children are transformed into kings and queens and honored as the bringers of the light at the darkest time of year. All of Rhinebeck comes alive in a day crammed with storytelling, live music, circus performers, dancers, magicians, puppet shows, a parade, and a pageant. It’s all done with the extravagance and taste that are typical of the upscale Rhinebeck community, yet all visitors are welcome.

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or many families, winter is the season to adorn their homes and yards with colorful lights. The Poughkeepsie region has made Christmas lighting into an art form. I grew up just east of the city, and driving through neighborhoods to see the lights was one of our holiday traditions. In 1995, Tim and Grace Gay of Lagrangeville began lighting their house to celebrate the birth of their first child. Now they have three offspring, and their display has grown to over 600,000 lights, synchronized to more than 230 songs, which can be heard by observers via car radio. The display is free, but the family accepts donations for charities and reported raising $37,000 in 2014. The ERDAJT display, named after the children’s initials, remains up through most of December.

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Holiday art It’s all about illumination By Paul Smart

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hristmas is a time for tableaux. It’s also a time for light and reflection, baubles and the baroque. Ditto Hannukah, up to a point. Ever since the Rebbe Schneerson’s push towards public menorah lightings in the 1970s, the festival seems to be gaining its own hold on art, or at least light displays. Need I mention that I have a weakness for the visuals of the holiday season? I go out of my way for extravagant light displays, and feel that the more surreal the aesthetic, the better. And the same goes for the more staid art, from nativity scenes and modernist menorahs to advent calendars and holiday cards. Although I do maintain that a good 60 percent of what one has to wade through to get to the good stuff is effluent. But to get back to that idea of tableaux...Think of creches, large and small. Adoration altar scenes. The mingling of barnyard animals with camels, kings of diverse backgrounds, and that shiny, spotlight-supplying North Star. And then think of all the variations on such a theme that are and continue to be possible. There are rooms full of great holiday scenes in the Vatican Museum. Up in Montreal, in the grand mountain-hugging spaces of the impressively catholic Oratorio of St. Joseph (under the world’s third largest dome) is an ongoing exhibit of nativity scenes from around the world, and across the ages. It’s filled with hundreds of pieces, some large, some fit into a matchbox (and all being shown outside this season, what with the museum undergoing renovations). There are figures made from wrought iron, from tinfoil, and carved from the world’s woods. The styles range from folk art to art brut, from modernist and semi-abstract to Rococo. Nativity scenes, living and staid, fill church yards and altars, homes and stores (in our house, we’ve mixed in LEGO characters and Power Rangers, jungle animals and King Cake babies over the years). But so do classic winter scenes, as evidenced by the popularity of department store windows in our great cities, holiday train set-ups, and more folksy bits of fun like the wee houses that have been dotting Hudson’s Seventh Street Park for decades now.

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series of grand downtown displays, the People Mover twinkled with holiday spirit, entire neighborhoods matched the city’s growing displays of mirror-shard outsider art with lights, both electric and burning, and everything was lent a poignant air by the ever-present sound of old Motown holiday classics from the moment when Civil Rights was first becoming a reality. Pre-kid, we also visited holiday displays in Holland, Belgium, France and Great Britain, in various small towns and cities around Mexico, as well as in India, Dubai and the surreal playgrounds of Hawaii, Florida and Southern California. Whether it was the Eiffel Tower done up in fairy lights, streets of Dutch homes each window-lit by candles, or the sight of a single spindly bush in the corner of Mumbai’s Hare Krishna compound lit by a single strand of orange and green bulbs with one bauble drooping the top branch to the ground, there was true beauty and art at hand in all we said. And all equal, when you get down to it, to the magnificent Van Dyke altarpieces lit perfectly for the season in Antwerp or whatever the Met, the Frick, or the Museum of Natural History has tastefully dreamed up in New York City. Want a nice factoid to mull? St. Francis of Assisi, for whom our current pope is named, is credited with creating the first nativity scene  in hen there are the lights! 1223 central Italy as a means of Woodstock and Uptown shifting the emphasis away from gift Kingston, Ellenville and Beagiving and secular materialism back con, Hudson’s Warren Street and to the worship of Christ. It was a livRhinebeck all go out of their way ing tableaux blessed by the pope of with storefront competitions augWIKICOMMONS the day, Honorius III, and staged in mented by municipal displays, tastea cave. It was also successful enough ful and fun. But for many the real It was only time before international holiday light displays would become the to become a standard for churches fun comes in ad hoc decorating, es- subject of reality television specials. Some of the best are found almost by throughout Europe by the 1300s. pecially in rural corners of the region accident on rural back roads around the Catskills and Hudson Valley. Talk about the power of art, espewhere a blast of twinklers can stop cially when conjoined with holidays. Rochester, and Buffalo trees and displays, Niagatraffic. Ever seen the so-called “mafia lights” of ra, Ontario’s lighting of the mighty falls, Gary and Blue Mountain, some of the homes outside HighHammond, Indiana, Erie, PA and even the Nela land, or the lone homes that mix weird blow-up snowmen and grinches with giant rat’s nest balls Park display at the GE Lighting headquarters outside of Cleveland, itself home to all those holiday of white light, or simply send an old line of colorKilt Rentals scenes from the seasonal classic, A Christmas Stoed bulbs, glaring the same for decades now, up Custom Made Kilts ry (Nela, by the way, comes from GE’s predecessor into an old tree in the middle of nowhere? SCOTTISH ATTIRE at the world’s first industrial park, the National Some pay to visit “prime” displays in Esopus & CELTIC ACCESSORIES Electric Lamp Association). and Albany, or the indoor Victorian wonders of Bob and Doreen Browning We visited friends in Chicago and St. Louis, hitthe great old Hudson Valley estates. A few years 54 Vineyard Ave. Highland, New York, 12528 ting the winter fairs of the former and the makeback, I convinced my family to indulge me in a 845-691-3888 • 1-800-859-KILT • Fax: 845-691-3611 a-grown-man-cry displays at the Anheuser Busch long-held dream and we traipsed out into the [email protected] factory. But the highlight of our long journey was tion’s heartland on what I’ve since dubbed a “Rust www.highlandkiltshop.com the scene in Detroit, where it rained hard on a Belt Christmas Tour,” catching downtown Utica,

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Dropping the ball New Year’s Eve in the Hudson Valley — and Beyond By Debra Bresnan

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heated tents on Wall Street (which is closed off for the evening) and enjoy pop-up shops with food and beverages. There’s live music and dancing at BSP, Stockade Tavern (with Caprice Rouge), Senate Garage and other uptown establishments plus special events sponsored by Boitson’s and Keegan Ales. The main stage features musical performances and Kingston’s Midnight Ball Drop. If you’re looking for an evening that’s a little more elegant and want to dress up and make a night — or even a weekend — of your celebrating, The Grandview in Poughkeepsie offers festivities, food and dancing with Hudson River views.Ditto the luxurious Diamond Mills, overlooking the lovely Esopus Falls in Saugerties. And, if you want New Year’s Eve festivities that last for nights and days, book a stay in the Shawangunk Mountains at the Hudson Valley Resort and Spa in Kerhonkson. You can enjoy snow tubing, skiing, hiking and ring in the New Year with fine dining, dancing and fun for the whole family. There are fireworks and other festivities for revelers at Windham Mountain Resort and Hunter Mountain ski resorts — or how about a three-day weekend (or just the New Year’s Eve dinner and dancing) at Ashokan Music & Dance Camp? Several popular concert venues have scheduled New Year’s Eve festivities including Helsinki Hudson (with Simi Stone, Pearl Aday, Scott Ian from Anthrax and Lisa Green); The Falcon in Marlboro with The Chris Bergson Band and Ellis Hooks and Bearsville Theater (with Sister Sparrow & The Dirty Birds); and Towne Crier Café in Beacon (with Chris O’Leary Band and Sari Schorr & Band + dinner if you like), and you’ll find similar live music offerings throughout the Hudson Valley at other popular nightspots. Mountain View Studio in Woodstock traditionally offers a sold-out early concert with Leslie Ritter, Amy Fradon, Cathie Malach and friends. Restaurants that feature delicious New Year’s Eve menus (some with music and dancing, too) include just about every one of your favorites. A few suggestions: Peekamoose in Big Indian; New World Home Cooking in Saugerties; Global Palate in West Park; Gigi Trattoriaand Terrapin in Rhinebeck; Ship to Shore and elephant in Kingston; and Bear Café just outside of Woodstock.

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If you see the opening between the end of one year and the beginning of a new one as an opportunity to be more mindful about how you spend your time on earth, there are plenty of ways to move more quietly and peacefully into 2017. Check your local yoga studio’s schedule for classes. Gather with like-minded friends to meditate or

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Spain: 12 Grapes

Eat one grape at each of the 12 tolling midnight bells for good luck in the months of the New Year.

Denmark: Broken China & Leaping

Save some broken plates and glasses to throw against loved ones’ doors or jump off a chair at midnight to bring good luck and banish bad spirits.

Central & South America: Lucky Underwear

Wear red undergarments on New Year’s Eve to attract love and yellow to attract money.

Philippines: Roundness

Representing coins, round shapes — such as fruits and polka dots — are believed to bring prosperity.

Scotland: Fires and Crossing the Threshold

Bonfire ceremonies and parades — with giant fireballs on overhead poles — symbolize the sun and purification. During Hogmanay, ‘first-footing’ requires that the first person stepping over a home’s doorstep must carry a gift for luck (often whiskey).

Panama: Effigy Burning

plan — to support non-profit organizations that are working so hard to improve our lives. Invite friends over to share a meal and give thanks for the bounty of the Hudson Valley. Decide what you want to learn or do in the coming year and sketch out some plans to bring it into fruition. If an organized, spiritually focused entry into the New Year is more to your taste, you can join with others at Menla Center for Health and Happiness in Phoenicia for “Real Love: Annual New Year’s Dharma & Yoga Retreat” with Carolyn Christie, Robert Thurman, Sharon Salzberg and Brooke Myers. At Sky Lake Shambhala Meditation & Retreat Center in Rosendale, you can sign up for “Snow Lion’s Delight Half Dathun” with Shastri Mary Campbell for either a one- or two-week meditation intensive to start your New Year with mindfulness.

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he Spirit of the Holidays. It’s no easy thing to write about that in this, the year of Our Lord, 2016. I once wrote a series of newspaper articles entitled “Belief in the Catskills.” Each installment explored a particular religion, or system, or practice via interviews with lay persons and spiritual leaders. That series was published in 1996. Well, just let me revisit those folks for this piece, I though. Ten years on, I got no timely response to my calls requesting interviews. I was on my own. When the going gets weird, someone once said, one might need to resort to gonzo journalism. That is, one needs to assert oneself into reporting the story. In this particularly weird go, what with shocking election results, the Pope delegating administrative powers over Chinese Catholics to the Chinese government (so, Dalai Lama, what are you doing New Years Eve?), a “super” moon that hardly challenged the magnificent, amber largeness of a typical Harvest Moon, the strange triumvirate of deaths (Fidel, Leonard Cohen, and Florence Henderson) we may find it hard to know what to believe. And belief is at the core of the Spirit of the Holidays. I believe in Christmas trees. I have friends who stubbornly insist the fragrant balsam is an intrusive religious symbol so toxic to non-believers that the mere sight of one is like aerosol laundry starch sprayed on the eyeballs. Not true. It is merely a holiday thing that lends itself to artistry. Come on. They’re pretty! I also believe in Christmas Eve Midnight Mass in Roman Catholic churches, and Syrian and Russian Orthodox Churches. I love the beautiful sanctuaries tastefully appointed with greens, the dim light, the candles, that round metal ball they swing which emits fragrant smoke. The mood is hushed. I am not of that faith, but I am deeply moved as I am deeply moved by the solemn peace that infuses those rooms. My background is Episcopalian. My childhood church was a small one story stone and timber chapel. What we lacked in dramatic backdrop, we made up for in adorable children’s pageants. My second born daughter played the Christ child one year, and brought down the house by stuffing a handful of straw from the manger into her tiny maw, like a puppy with a bone, grinning at the audience, all of whom tried to be somber, like those aforementioned Catholics, which only made their suppressed guffaws that much more explosive. There is a story of one Christmas Eve, when all the children were given candles as they left the service, and told to guard each little light. One little mountain dweller cupped her hand around her tiny flame all the way through that stormy night, and fell asleep watching it play in its reflection on her frosty window. I believe in the High Holy Days, The Days of Awe, because I have benefitted from the largesse of spirit in my friends of the Jewish faith. I grew up in industrial Northern New Jersey. My 80 year old father spent the last years of his life building silk looms for his 100 year old boss, Mr. Kalkstein. I danced at bar mitzvahs and bat mitzvahs and sweet sixteens. In ninth grade, us kids in AP ‘biology were invited to the home of our biology teacher. Mr. Weiss and his wife, young and newly married, wanted to share with us how civilized, educated people behave. This was novel for us Jersey kids. Just listen to Springsteen’s lyrics if you need context. I also strongly believe in Channukah for reasons best explained by rugulach. One of my best friends in college was a Muslim. I regret now that I had no way of knowing how difficult it was for her to be our friend. She was astonishingly beautiful. When she walked into a bar or a frat house, or a department store, heads would turn. She dated. This infuriated her older brother. He explained that it was alright for

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he past year has deepened many divides in this country. We recently hosted most of our adult children and their significant others for Thanksgiving We did not discuss politics, which is epic, since this is a rowdy bunch. Always. But the rifts are too painful, the chasm between this and that “belief ” too vast. We all feel hopeless. Why have a discussion? No opinions will change. Is this just the beginning of “brother against brother?” Centuries ago the original people of this nation found a solution. Some time around 1200 AD, The Peacemaker appeared along with the Onandagan Hiawatha to the Mohawk people. A woman, Jigonhsasee, listened to the prophecy of The Peacemaker, as spoken by Hiawatha, who was known for his oratory. Oratory remains central to Iroquois tradition today. The woman (Please Note: it was a woman) was able to persuade the Mohawk, Oneida, Onondaga, Cayuga, and Seneca people to adopt the principles put forth by The Peacemaker. This became the Iroquois Confederacy. The tribes gathered at Onondaga Lake, where they planted a Tree of Peace and proclaimed the Great Binding Law of the Iroquois Confederacy. The Tuscaroras eventually joined, too. This confederacy influenced the United States Constitution and Anglo-American ideas of democracy. During the Albany congress of July 1754, Benjamin Franklin said of the Iroquois confederacy: “It would be a strange thing...if six nations of ignorant savages should be capable of forming such a union, and yet it has subsisted for ages and appears indissoluble, and yet like a union should be impractical for 10 or a dozen English colonies.” In case you are mistaken, the ancient tensions between the Iroquois nations absolutely rivaled our little Red vs. Blue spat. They were not playing. They practiced cannibalism.

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he enduring peace of this confederacy starts with the practice of reciting The Thanksgiving Address. Recitation of this is not limited to one Thursday in November. It is known as The Words That Come Before All Else. The prayer is based on the belief that the world can not be taken for granted, and that we must thank all living things in order to align our minds with the natural world. This prayer is the backbone of the Iroquois culture. When spoken, it brings about a pervading tone of peace, a mood conducive to respect and cooperation...A faithkeeper is selected to share the words of thanksgiving at the opening and closing of social, government, and ceremonial events. The prayer follows a general structure, however, individual speakers use their own distinct words and expression. This prayer follows an order, beginning with the lowest spiritual forces on Earth, continuing to those in the sky, and ending with the highest forces beyond the sky. The prayer begins with The People, and is followed by The Earth, The Waters, The Fish, The Plants, The Animals, The Trees, The Birds, Our Sustenance, The Winds, The Thunderers, The Sun, The Moon, The Stars, The Four Beings, and Handsome Lake. The prayer ends with The Creator.You can hear the prayer spoken by Howard Hill (Tuscarora) in the Tuscarora language. He is one of the last fluent speakers from the tribe, in the original http:// www.artinjun.ca/printup_hope/earth5.html This year, one of our Thanksgiving guests suited up in orange and camouflage, grabbed a handful of cookies and a gun, wrapped himself in a horse blanket and tied it over his shoulder like a Portuguese separatist, and headed out before dawn, ostensibly to shoot big game, claiming to pattern himself after Vasily Zaytsev, the Hero of Stalingrad. He repeated this ritual every morning and late afternoon of his stay with us. Nobody died. The deer herd remains intact. He eventually confessed that he really just wanted to meditate deep in the forest. I know the power of that. I need to retreat often.



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